Many boys have no problem chatting with girls, and can also develop an ambiguous relationship with girls, but they have said everything they need to say and done what they need to do. After being ambiguous with girls for a long time, they still cannot break through the ambiguous relationship and establish a romantic relationship. And if two people have been ambiguous for a long time without progress, they may gradually fade away. So how do men and women break the ambiguous relationship and become lovers?
1. The stage of first acquaintance - let nature take its course
When you first start to have an affair with a girl, you should hold your breath and slow down your pursuit of the girl. Don’t Make a girl feel that you must be hers, because people are accustomed to reaching out to get what they want, and they don't cherish things that can be obtained without paying.
2. Communication stage - hot and cold
When you are in the ambiguous communication stage with a girl, don’t chat with her whenever you have nothing to do. Don’t say good morning, good afternoon, good afternoon, and good night. ...This will only invisibly consume the excitement and freshness of the ambiguous stage between the two. When you have something to do, focus on doing your own thing. When you are free, talk to girls casually, which will actually arouse girls' interest in you.
3. Approaching stage - mixed use of nicknames and full names
With ambiguous girls You can give each other nicknames. This is a small interaction between you, which can bring you closer invisibly. But don't call her by her nickname all the time. You can call her by her nickname sometimes and her full name sometimes.
Because calling a girl by her full name will create a sense of distance, and the girl will feel lost and feel that your relationship with her is a bit distant, but you will sometimes use intimate terms for her, and it seems that you are not neglecting her. . By doing this, you will make girls want to continue to have a close relationship with you.
4. Heart-to-heart stage - increasing intimacy
It is always the man who takes the initiative to upgrade the relationship. Don’t expect a girl to ask you to be her boyfriend. Those who are actively asked to be boyfriends by girls will definitely not read my article. When you make an escalation move, girls are likely to resist, but most resistance is symbolic. Don’t be fooled by this symbolic Resistance scares.
But if the girl’s feedback is not good when you increase intimacy with the ambiguous girl, you should retreat appropriately and continue to maintain good interactions with the girl.
5. Flow stage - let her get used to your presence
When the girl you are having an affair with has already After getting used to your presence, if you don't take the initiative to look for her one day, she will take the initiative to look for you.
6. Meeting stage - creating physical contact
In fact, ambiguous men and women are afraid of taking that step: expressing their love. Because it feels like whoever expresses it first loses, but in fact the two ambiguous people are silentlySilently testing the other person's feelings, thinking about whether the other person also likes her.
At this time, the boy might as well take the initiative and create accidental physical contact when the two of them are alone, such as holding her hand to protect her when crossing the road, walking to a close distance while watching a movie. Support her in dark places, and check to see if the girl avoids her during the process. This is also one of the steps for two people in an ambiguous relationship to break through the relationship.
7. Promise stage - creating surprises
In the fast-paced life, if it is ordinary, A little surprise will definitely make a girl happy for a few days. How to comfort a girl when she is angry? The most direct way is to give her her favorite snacks or lipstick. Sending small gifts is definitely a way to win the other person's favor and make the other person feel more or less how much you feel. This is also a way to further develop the relationship between the two.
In fact, it is not that difficult to break an ambiguous relationship. It’s just that many boys are used to being ambiguous with girls, and they have been in this ambiguous situation with girls. After a long period of ambiguity, the girls will gradually start to treat you instead of breaking through. The feeling has faded away, so it is urgent to break the ambiguous relationship and become lovers.
