Girls are very concerned about details and easily emotional creatures, so in the process of getting along with them, if you don’t want some irreconcilable conflicts to lead to a breakup, you need to pay attention to some small details. Below, I will share with you 4 tips that can help you break up. Reduce the details where conflicts occur.
1. Acknowledge first, then reason
In the process of getting along, how to deal with girls If you have different opinions, don't rush to reason. You can agree with her first and make her happy first. Then, you can reason with her tactfully.
Acknowledging first will make girls feel recognized and feel relaxed and happy. Being reasonable will make girls feel that you are actually right. With the foreshadowing in front, it is easier to accept it.
2. Say nice things directly, and say unpleasant things in a roundabout way
Say nice things directly, and everyone will Understood:
"Why do you look so good every day?" "You have such a good figure." "The hair style you did today is so classy." "You have read so many books, it's really amazing." Whatever Say, come to me if you are unhappy.
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If not, I don’t believe you don’t sincerely want to praise her.
Saying unpleasant things in a roundabout way is a skill. Let’s take a small example to get a feel for it:
Original sentence: Have you gained a little weight recently?
Replacement: The food has been a bit good recently. What’s delicious to eat? I recommend it.
Original sentence: I tell you that you don’t understand either, I’m busy first.
Replacement: This thing is a bit complicated. After I finish my work, I will spend three days and three nights to explain it to you.
Original sentence: What are you doing, don’t you know how to protect me? Look, are you destroyed?
Replacement: I lost so miserably today. I have to kill you. Next time you encounter this kind of situation, you have to protect your teammates, you know?
3. Sincere attitude , willing to improve on deficiencies
In fact, in the minds of girls, many common problems of boys are understandable, but attitude is very important.
For example, girls don’t like boys who are addicted to games, but you like playing games, and you always miss girls’ messages because of games.
Boys may think it’s nothing, because they have to log out in the middle of replying to WeChat. It’s time for brothers to stop playing with me! She should know that I really like her.She should understand by clicking back to the message.
But girls will think in their hearts: "Why doesn't he reply to my messages? Does he think I'm annoyed? Okay, then I will never take the initiative to look for him again."
If a girl suddenly stops looking for you, this is a sign that something is wrong.
At this time, you need to pay attention to your attitude:
"Sorry, I have been under a lot of pressure at work these two days. I have been playing games for a long time and I didn't pay attention to your message. Next time No, I will only play for an hour a day from now on. I will report to you before I start, can you supervise me?"
What makes girls angry may not be that you play games, but that you have no control. The most important thing is What's wrong is not replying to her message. So when you take care of all these details, she will feel relieved.
4. Understand the other party’s needs and express your own suggestions at the same time
When you go to eat, you may feel Kebabs and beer are more suitable for summer, but the girl wants to go to an exquisite Western restaurant.
Do you think that a Western meal is just a little bit of food, and if you don’t have enough to eat, it’s expensive? Is it just to pretend to be a B?
But the girl thinks: “Just to go out with you today.” , I put on makeup carefully, wore a dress and high heels, and you just let me sit on the side of the road and play strings? It’s so hot, I’m dressed up in vain?”
At this time, you just You need to understand the girl, and you can also express your own thoughts: "It's true that your dress today is not suitable for this place, blame me for not thinking well, but I'm not used to eating Western food, how about we find a Chinese restaurant with a better environment? Like?"
