Many boys blame the reason why they can’t chase girls on “lack of money”. However, look at those who play underground rap who are neither handsome nor good-looking. Have they ever lacked girls? Isn’t Jack Ma handsome? Well, how did his wife marry him before he had money and started a business?
Usually I feel that if I don’t have money, I will marry him. Single boys who can't catch girls don't notice how important a person's inner self is.
What we often see is which female star joins a wealthy family. A 50-year-old rich man marries a popular actress. The media will also talk about it. Subconsciously, they feel that they are a good match. After all, men rich.
What you can see around you at any time is that the girl next to that handsome guy is really good-looking. A friend of mine who is from a similar family background has never had a girlfriend, and your subconscious mind will think: they are a good match. After all, men are handsome.
As for a boy who has no money and is not handsome, he can still find a beautiful girlfriend. You see less of it through the media, and you are less likely to come into contact with it, or rarely come into contact with it. People just think that these types of boys cannot find girlfriends.
Actually, just because you can’t see them doesn’t mean they don’t exist. You just don’t belong to the same circle as them.
They may be unknown writers;
They may be musicians with low incomes;
They may be street enthusiasts doing graffiti, rap, hip-hop, etc.;
It may be a clerk on the road of struggle;
It may be any freelancer who is struggling to make a living.
You will find that they are very attractive to girls. Generally speaking, they are interesting souls. This is also the most important quality. It is even greater than whether they are rich or handsome. .
Especially when a girl is already very thoughtful, then money and good looks are vulnerable to her, like This kind of truly tall girl can only be impressed by a man with the same inner spirit.
Intrinsic value can be said to be the master key and shortcut to chasing girls.
Li Dan, who became famous in 18 years, has many identities. He is a poet, writer, joker and talk show actor. Before the joke became popular, he published many books, but none of them sold well and people gave them away. Nicknamed "the famous best-selling author".
Eighteen years ago, it could be said that it was all about looks but no beauty, and money but no money. But needless to say, his girlfriend's appearance is good. This girl was with Li Dan before he became famous.
Kuroo-chan has been with Li Dan since he was a poor student. Is she betting that Li Dan will become famous in the future? No, I believe Kuroo-chan can’t be sure, but still Encourage him when he repeatedly fails in writing books. Husband, I believe in you.Even if Li Dan is not famous in the end, she will still think that Li Dan is a hero, but no one understands Li Dan.
Some brothers may say: Although Li Dan was from an ordinary background, he was able to find a beautiful wife because they are all ambitious. Although they are not ambitious now, they will definitely give people the feeling of potential. But I am different from them. I have no plans for the future, and I cannot become a great person. It seems that I am destined to miss beauties.
Personal charm is not just about being motivated in career like them, but also having a beautiful wife without the ambition to save the world:< /p>
Beast Husband and Korean National Goddess Lee Hyori is such a rough guy. The first thing a normal person would think of is - this man must be very rich. He is already so rough, so he should be a rich man.
Lee Hyori’s husband not only has no money nor great ambitions to change the world, he is just a farmer!!!
In 2013, Lee Hyori’s confession to her then-fiancé Lee Sang-soon He became famous on the Internet: "I like Lee Sang-shun, who only has one piece of clothing, plays guitar, and is older. In my eyes, he is the most handsome. My brother is really unscrupulous, but I only have money. Even so, my brother He doesn’t hate me either.”
“My brother is very rich. He taught me to sow, harvest, pick tomatoes, and roll in the hay, but I have nothing but money.”
I believe it. Li Shangshun is also motivated, but his pursuit is different from Li Dan's desire to change his future. He is just living a progressive life. What he wants is not fame and fortune, but ordinary people's different attitude towards life.
When life is no longer for survival, but only for happiness, ordinary life will be given extraordinary meaning.
Looking back at yourself, why you don’t have a girlfriend? It’s not that you don’t have money or that you’re not handsome enough, but that you have no intrinsic value.
Therefore, it’s okay to not be handsome without money. To find a girlfriend, you just need to improve your inner value and let your inner self attract girls.
