Question:
I have been with my girlfriend for just two months. Every time I go out, my girlfriend asks me to pay for it. And every time she goes out, she has a lot of things to buy. Today I am buying a bag. I will buy cosmetics tomorrow and imported fruits the day after tomorrow... But she has never said anything about buying me anything after being together for so long. Even though I don't have much money, she still spends a lot of money as before, and I pay for everything. I want to ask my girlfriend if she doesn’t spend a penny and it’s all my money. Is it normal?
Answer:
In fact, most of the money is paid by the boys when going out for dinner. There is no doubt about this. . But something is obviously wrong with your situation. She just needs to have the words "big wronged" carved on your forehead. Because whether in her heart or in yours. You are positioned as a provider from the beginning.
As long as you have talked with a girl who really likes you, you will know. If a girl likes you, she will take the initiative to share the burden for you, help you save money, and will also be willing to spend money for you. If a girl takes you as the boss, she will make you pay for everything, or she will take care of the small things herself and let you take care of the big ones. Then they kidnap you morally by saying, "If you don't even want to spend money on me, you must not love me."
Go and watch videos online to see how many little girls stay up late knitting scarves and doing cross-stitch for their boyfriends, as well as buying peripherals and giving shoes. If you search online, you will see how many girls are in "generalized AA, taking turns paying the bill" with their boyfriends. Especially when both of them are not rich, how can they be willing to fuck their boyfriends hard?
In the first few years of my career, I accidentally met a girl who was in college. I am working and she is still going to school. How can I let her spend money?
As a result, the girl competed with me to pay the bill. If I couldn’t compete, I would secretly scan the code to pay in advance, or secretly buy movie tickets and milk tea.
During every festival, gifts are exchanged, and I never give them unilaterally. Even if the gift is not very expensive, it is enough to do your best, understand each other, and let each other feel the feelings of both parties. This is the kind of girl who really likes you.
I have also met girls who are "short-term friends". I'll pay for meals, accommodation, and dates. There's no problem with that. We have a tacit understanding and mutual benefit. But when we went shopping together, I was never asked to pay for the things that others bought themselves. This is knowing how to measure.
Looking at you again: "Even if I don't have much money, she is still the same as before. I pay for everything she goes out." Just looking at this point alone can mean that not only does she not like you, but she also doesn't know how to behave. Even if she gives you the small head, you will give the big head. This is not intended to be a steady stream of water at all. I am just running towards the leek root, and I can live one day at a time. When she fucks you hard one day, she will go to the next ATM.
As for what I should do if my girlfriend doesn’t spend a penny and I spend all the money, I suggest you stop this relationship as soon as possible and stop the loss in time.
