It’s normal for boyfriends and girlfriends to quarrel, and the breakdown of relationships between many boys and their girlfriends is actually caused by repeated quarrels. Next, I will share with you the correct way to deal with a quarrel between a boy and his girlfriend. I hope your relationship will not be affected by the quarrel.
1. Let her talk more
Girls seem to be born with a vicious tongue. When they are emotional, if they speak out, they will make people throw things and make them unable to control their emotions. They will keep labeling you for not working hard, not making progress, not caring enough, not considerate enough, etc., which will make you feel ashamed. But don't try to change the characteristics of your girlfriend. It's very difficult, impossible in a short time, or even in a lifetime. The best solution is, when they are talking, don't quarrel with them, let them say, don't say anything, go sweep the floor, wash the fruits, tidy up the housework, let her say enough, that's about it. , you go up to comfort me again, and say it’s all your fault that made you angry. Girlfriends, especially during their menstrual period, are very emotional. It is not easy for them. They have to endure the pain for a week every month. Please be more understanding. Besides, you may be mean-spirited, but I still love you very much in my heart.
2. Listen and hug her
Girlfriends often involve themselves in the things and feelings they are experiencing. Together, they will unconsciously blame you for their unhappiness and unsatisfactory work and life. In fact, girls are a vulnerable group in this society. They are often treated unfairly. When they encounter any problems or unhappiness, they will talk to the person they rely on the most, and then the relationship between the two will be involved. When it comes to relationships, you need to consider many complicated factors, consider the uncertain future, imagine many assumptions, etc., but you have to know that what they say is not true, and they are just joking when they say they break up. What they need is just to seek. A hug and a little encouragement.
At this time, you have to be very patient and listen to what they have to say. After they have finished talking, go up and give them a hug and say, "I will never leave you when encountering any difficulties. These problems are not a problem at all." It will affect your relationship." If I push you away, it will be fine if I continue to hug you. Then you will ask, you men are very busy and tired from work all day, how can you have the time and energy to listen to her? So do you want a girlfriend or a job? All you can say is to be flexible and balance work and feelings. Whether it is work or feelings, you must be patient, you must be patient, you must be patient, remember.
3. Don’t be unreasonable
Girlfriends’ thinking logic is different from men’s. You men, don’t try to change it. Their thinking logic follows your intentions. In principle, the two people are complementary. As men, sometimes it is difficult to understand the logic of their thinking. They feel disordered and rambling. Before the matter is finished, it has already reached another place.One thing is like answering a mathematical proof question, and a line of ancient Chinese poetry comes up. So if you argue with them, you think you are fighting back, but in the end you are angry to death. You feel that there is no logic at all, and you want to throw things and hit people. impulse. Moreover, they pay more attention to the results and ignore the process and causes of the results to a large extent. For example, they only care about the fact that you and she quarreled, and no longer care about the reasons for the quarrel. Especially for many men in science and engineering, this is simply incomprehensible, but what you have to do is not to argue with them, let them finish speaking, and come forward for a hug. Love is a process of exercising patience.
Of course, the correct way to handle a fight between a boy and his girlfriend also varies from person to person. After all, no couple has their own way of handling it. The mode of getting along, if you feel that you have been getting along well for a long time, then continue to stick to it.
