Nothing will be answered when you quarrel with your girlfriend
1. The cause of the quarrel
Every couple will inevitably have quarrels, and my girlfriend and I are no exception. The dispute started out as a small misunderstanding but turned into a heated argument. She said a lot of hurtful things in anger, but I chose to remain silent.
2. Reasons for silence
Why did I choose silence? Actually, it’s not because I have nothing to say, but because I know the importance of thinking calmly during an argument. Responding to her rhetoric would only inflame the argument and could lead to more serious consequences. So, I chose to remain silent and give myself some time to calm down.
3. Think calmly
In silence, I began to reflect on the reasons for the dispute between us. I thought about all the problems we had when getting along, including miscommunication, different expectations from each other, etc. This argument is just the tip of the iceberg, and it exposes a much deeper problem between us.
I also reflected on my words and deeds to see if there was anything I didn’t do well that caused her to be so resentful towards me. This process made me realize that quarreling is not a way to solve problems, but a source of aggravation of conflicts.
4. Communication and understanding
After thinking calmly, I decided to take the initiative to communicate with my girlfriend. I wanted to be able to listen to her thoughts and feelings and express my understanding and apology. Only through sincere communication can we find solutions to problems.
During the communication, I found that she was actually very sad and disappointed. She felt like I never really cared about her feelings and always put myself first. This made me feel guilty because I didn't mean to ignore her needs.
5. Reflection and change
Through communication with my girlfriend, I began to reflect on my behavior, And realize that changes need to be made. I understand that love requires giving and tolerance, and you cannot just care about your own feelings. So, I decided to pay more attention to her needs and try to communicate better.
I also hope that by changing myself, I can inject new vitality and warmth into our relationship. I believe that as long as we work together, it is not difficult to solve the problem.
6. Reconciliation and Growth
Eventually, we reached a reconciliation after the quarrel. Although this argument hurt both of us, it also became an opportunity for us to grow. We learned to understand each other better, listen to each other, and realize that love requires work and sacrifice.
Since then, our relationship has become closer and stronger. We learned to communicate better and avoided similar arguments from happening again. Although this quarrel was painful, it also made meWe walk together more firmly.
7. Conclusion
Fighting with my girlfriend and saying nothing may be just a temporary choice, but it gives me the opportunity to reflect and grow. Through calm thinking, communication and understanding, I understand that love requires giving and tolerance. This quarrel made us cherish each other more and laid a stronger foundation for our future.
