It is said that a woman can only cheat once or countless times, so under normal circumstances, as long as a woman cheats, few men will forgive her even if she admits her mistake. But it doesn't rule out that some people who really can't let go will choose to forgive. Can a woman not be forgiven for cheating and admitting her mistake?
As a practitioner in the love industry, I would like to analyze two situations from a psychological perspective:
1. Choose not to forgive
Women are different from men. Men’s sex and love can be separated, and men can live without love. Intimate behavior with women. But a woman must be emotionally ready before she is willing to be intimate with a man. Therefore, when men cheat, most of them are just physical. On a psychological level, whether it is out of a sense of family responsibility or out of feelings for his wife, it is rare to cheat psychologically.
And once a woman cheats, in most cases, she cheats both physically and mentally. No matter what she says, a woman has a good impression of the person she cheats on. Now that the other person's mind has transferred, or partially transferred, there is no point in continuing to get along with each other. The situation is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change. If there is one, there will be two. The risk of problems in the future is still very high. Therefore, forgiveness is not recommended.
In addition, pay attention to the reasons why the other person cheated. If the other person cheated on her while she was sober, no matter how she explains it, forgiveness is not recommended. If the other person cheats on you while unconscious, make a decision based on the seriousness of the situation.
If you are just a provider for a woman and she does not love you emotionally, it is recommended to end the relationship. She doesn't have feelings for you, which is an emotional experience. Trying to persuade her by being nice to her and being reasonable will be ineffective. Once the other person meets the target they really like, they will abandon you. Suggestion, no forgiveness.
2. Choose to forgive
Even though the editor has talked about so many reasons why cheating women do not deserve to be forgiven, some friends have devoted too much emotion to their partners. The bond between family and children makes it difficult to let go of each other. Regarding this situation, the editor wants to say that there is no right or wrong choice. But once you have made your decision, you cannot complain or regret. Don't accept it for a moment and then feel aggrieved afterwards, causing both parties to suffer.
The most important reason for choosing to forgive is your previous relationship. If both parties have always been harmonious and loving each other, and the woman occasionally makes mistakes, she can still consider forgiving them. Or given that the other party has performed well for the family before and is a good wife, you can also consider forgiving.
If you choose to forgive, you must test whether the other party's attitude is sincere and ask the other party to make a guarantee. rightIf the party makes a mistake again, it will need to bear corresponding responsibilities.
Finally, you must think clearly. If you choose to forgive, you will not be able to hold on to the past, which will make both parties unhappy. To achieve unity of knowledge and action, follow your true inner feelings. Never choose to forgive at the moment and then regret it later, which will cause you pain and make the other person uncomfortable.
