When chasing girls, you should be nice to them and please them. This is true, but if you only kneel and lick to please them deliberately, with the concept of giving without expecting anything in return, then there will be a big problem.
He is too nice, otherwise, your relationship will be difficult to get along with in the future. Because human nature determines that you will not cherish things and things that are easily obtained without paying any price.It’s like you have worked countless days and nights to finally get into a prestigious university. You must cherish being in this school. When you are a little slack or naughty, the teacher will threaten you with not being able to graduate, and then you will give in strangely. You are very afraid that you will not get your diploma because you have paid so much. Much more.
And you plan to do part-time work during the summer vacation, handing out flyers, and doing odd jobs. You may have done something wrong after just two days on the job. If your boss scolds you, you can just quit. Because this kind of job is easy to find, and you don’t have to pay any deposit. At most, it doesn’t matter to you during the day for two days, because you haven’t paid anything, so you are willing to take it.
The same goes for chasing girls!
If you pay before you get her, The more she wants, the more unwilling you are, and the more unwilling you are, the more you will invest. What you invest may be money (buy her gifts and treat her to dinner) or dignity (kneel down and lick her to please her without any limit). When you invest these When you don’t get a return, you will continue to invest, and then fall into a vicious cycle~
The relationship between the sexes needs to be balanced!
The most important thing when chasing girls is to Have your own attitude, and you should take what you give. If you are good to her, you need to respond and be rewarded. Unrequited love is actually wishful thinking. This return does not mean that if you give her a gift, she will give you a gift, or if you treat her to dinner, she will treat you to a movie. This reward can be material or emotional.
Times have changed. If it were 20 years ago, it was still the era of true equality between men and women. Maybe you would treat a girl to a meal. , she will also treat you in return.
But in this era, when men and women date, it is natural for men to spend money, so this method is not very correct.
But emotional investment is also needed. For example, asking the other party to call you to wake up, for example, asking the other party to do some small things for you, or for example, you always take the initiative to find her every day, and occasionally ask her toShe takes the initiative to chat with you. If you take the initiative to say hello to a girl every day, but she never takes the initiative to you, then you can conclude that she must not like you!
A charming man must always know how to maintain a balance in the relationship between two people!
The relationship between two people is like a scale. If you love She loves you 70%, so she can only love you 30%. At this time, you will cherish it more and become more nervous. The more nervous you are, the more you care. Eventually, because you push too hard, the other person will feel disgusted, bored, and even leave you.
Therefore, when chasing a girl, be sure not to try too hard to please her. More often, we need to learn to let go and give ourselves space. Spend more time with friends, and even get to know more friends of the opposite sex to create a sense of urgency for each other. It’s not that you can’t live without her, it’s not that you can’t live without her. And you always have an equal relationship, and this is the key to chasing her!
