Marital Crisis refers to a sudden or potential event that occurs suddenly or may occur in a marriage, endangering the image of the marriage, the relationship between the marriage, and the existence of the marriage. It causes unavoidable consequences for the couples who maintain their relationship in the marriage. The interference is that the marriage is in trouble or public opinion. Dealing with the marital crisis is a challenging test for the relationship between the couple.
Symptoms of marital crisis
1) When you want to be intimate with your wife but are rejected, Or when you and your wife are having sex, your wife does not respond in any language, behavior, or emotion. Although you applaud love, you do not enjoy happiness in it.
2) Quarrel is the most common behavior between couples. Necessary quarrels can allow both spouses to understand each other’s true needs and feelings, thereby making the marriage life smoother. However, quarrels that are nit-picking and just looking for trouble It means deliberately irritating the other party and attacking the other party.
3) Differences of opinion. In family choices, sometimes couples will have differences of opinion. At this time, it becomes a matter of who to listen to. This brings up a very critical issue. If two people are very serious, it will easily lead to greater and more conflicts! People with prejudiced, stubborn, and authoritarian personalities can easily cause a marriage crisis.
4) In family relationships, a common question is whether the man's family or the woman's family is more important, or the approach taken when dealing with relatives appears to be partial, disgusting, conniving and other attitudes.
How to deal with marital crisis
Marital crisis is different from love crisis. Crisis in marriage is often not just about "Love" is mixed with many emotions and things, and its serious disadvantages need to be considered carefully in order to handle the marriage crisis safely.
Communicate honestly. When there is a crisis in the marriage, the husband and wife must maintain a high degree of trust and honesty, so that the two people can communicate effectively. Otherwise, it will just be a delay and a waste of time.
Looking at it objectively, both husband and wife should handle it with an attitude of resolving the marital crisis. When analyzing the problem, do not have a biased, egoistic or blind perspective, but stand from the perspective of two people. At the same time, look at it objectively and come up with a mutually agreed way of handling it.
Don’t substitute emotions. When resolving a marital crisis, avoid involving emotions. Emotions will interfere with each other’s rational thinking and are not conducive to solving the marital crisis. This requires both parties to remain calm.
