There are many boys who have good conditions, whether it is appearance, height, or salary, but they still cannot leave the single family. Why is this?
1. Reasons why you are still single even if your conditions are not bad
1. Too passive
No matter how good you are, you You have to learn to show it and let girls feel it. Being too passive will definitely not work.
2. High demands
Of course I understand this mentality, but I am not afraid of having high demands, I am afraid of feeling too good about myself.
There are many people who have a salary of 10,000 yuan, but they look down on others who earn 8,000 yuan; they have saved up for a few months to buy a luxury watch, but they look down on others carrying a bag worth several thousand yuan. This is a bit overestimating oneself.
We all want to wait for something better. Have you ever thought that when you actually meet someone, they might have to pick on you? Don’t you think so?
In fact, there are many single people because of these reasons. Is it really impossible to get out of singles?
No, but we must try to change.
2. How do boys with good conditions get out of singles
1. Learn to show yourself
Maybe you are really good, you can be considerate, good at cooking, and understand girls’ emotions, but if you don’t show it, how can others know?
Showing yourself is not for you in front of girls. If you want to praise yourself fiercely, you still have to be a little more clever.
For example, when chatting, find an opportunity to bring the topic to yourself, and praise yourself without knowing it. Like this:
Male: "I just saw the request for help in your circle of friends. What's wrong with your computer?"
Female: "Suddenly there was a blue screen."
< p>Male: "I know a master who repairs computers. You might be able to ask him for help."Female: "Who is it?"
Male: "Oh my god, hahaha. "
Female: "Picture"
Male: "I'll tell you how to operate..."
2. Overcome perfectionism
p>Have you ever had this mentality:
“My conditions are so good, girls’ conditions must be better too”;
“I am not good enough now Well, let’s wait until we become better before we fall in love.";
"The first relationship cannot be casual, you must find someone who is satisfactory in all aspects."
.. ....
As time went by, I discovered that as time passed year by year, there was still no suitable person.
You may have met someone along the way who you can chat with, but you think her family situation is not good enough.Good; you may have met someone with a particularly good personality, but you thought she was not pretty enough; you may have met someone who actively pursued you, but you felt she was not restrained enough.
So, what you say is inappropriate, is it really inappropriate?
It’s just that no one is perfect in the world.
Most of today’s young people talk about being loyal to their feelings, but no one can tell what they really are.
Therefore, you might as well write down the characteristics of the opposite sex that you like, and if you meet two or more, you can try to get in touch with them.
3. Take the initiative
For many boys, love is like a math problem that they cannot solve. .
In fact, there is nothing you can’t understand. Either you haven’t met someone you really like, or you don’t know how to get close to him.
It’s really not that easy to meet someone you like and are suitable for you. Maybe you have never experienced the feeling of heartbeat before. To change this state, you must first try to contact more girls.
Participate in more social activities to increase your exposure, and your chances of meeting fate will be greatly increased.
