If you don’t want to have a failed blind date experience, you should be very particular about the chat topics after the blind date. However, choosing chat topics is something that many boys worry about. They don’t know what to talk about when, and what can and cannot be talked about. Therefore, it is difficult to meet your favorite blind date, but it often ends in failure.
Today, the editor will sort out the chat topics for this type of boys after a blind date, and tell you what can and cannot be discussed.
1. Essential chat topics during a blind date
1. "What do you usually like to do"
By asking a girl like this, you can learn about the girl’s interests and hobbies, and then grab the keywords from the information points that the girl replies, and choose what you are good at to extend the topic. If you and the girl you are dating have a common topic, the next It’s not easy to get cold feet on a blind date.
2. "What kind of food do you like to eat?"
Asking girls in this way can avoid embarrassment when ordering food. For example, if a girl happens to be losing weight during this time, she cannot order it. For food that is too greasy, respecting girls can create a harmonious dating atmosphere and leave girls with an image of a gentleman and a warm man.
If you feel good about each other through this blind date, you can please the other person according to their preferences when you go on a date. This is definitely a plus in the process of pursuing each other.
3. "What do you do for a living?"
Work is a topic that is almost always asked during a blind date. After asking the other person, you should also take the initiative to introduce yourself. It is best to talk more. Try to involve the other person in the conversation about interesting people, interesting things, and anecdotes at work. If you talk without caring about the other person's feelings, then girls will label you as having "low emotional intelligence."
4. "Where have you traveled?"
Almost everyone yearns for a chat For a quick trip, I believe girls must have traveled to many places. You can talk to the other party about which cities you have been to, which city impressed her the most, and where you most want to travel... Moreover, talking about travel can not only show your experience Being knowledgeable can also create emotional resonance between two people.
5. "What types of movies, TV shows, and variety shows do you like to watch?"
Girls generally like to watch movies, TV shows, and variety shows. If what the other person likes happens to be the same as what you like, Then you will let it take its course and establish a common topic. If a movie with a good reputation is being released recently, when the conversation gets interesting, you can make an invitation to watch a movie together to increase the emotional connection between you.
6. You can ask the other person "what's their zodiac sign?"
Constellation is an emotional topic. If you feel that the person you are dating makes you feel...If you feel good, you can use the topic of zodiac signs to upgrade the relationship, and then use the zodiac signs to guide the personalities of the two people. Through deep emotional communication, and women are inherently emotional creatures, you can inadvertently deepen the relationship between the two people. Familiarity.
2. Topics not to be discussed during a blind date
1. "How many times have you been in love? "How many boyfriends have you had?"
Although love history is a topic that many people are concerned about, it is the most taboo topic for the first blind date. Asking the other party's love history directly is the best way to Inquiry into privacy, and because of the deeply ingrained concept of machismo, many boys think that girls who fall in love are just playing with broken shoes. This is a typical straight male cancer thinking in male-female relationships.
2. "Who will do the housework and take care of the children after marriage?"
Only people with low emotional intelligence would ask this kind of question. What's more, it's the first time you two meet. You are not sure whether the other person has a crush on you and is willing to date you. This topic goes beyond your current relationship.
3. "Whose name will be written on the house after marriage?"
This is also a question that goes beyond relationships. Topic, asking like this not only shows that you are stingy, but also shows that you do not value feelings, and it is basically impossible for you to have a follow-up relationship after the blind date.
4. "How much do you weigh and how much money you have in savings?"
Weight is a secret for girls. If a girl has a good figure, she is usually willing to share it with you, but if she is too fat, you It hit the girl's sore spot. Moreover, deposits are a very private topic, so asking directly like this will only make girls lose interest in you instantly.
5. "Do you mind if my family background, education and job are not good?"
Asking like this is weakening your social value. Since girls can come out to date you, it shows that There is a possibility of further advancing the relationship between you, but if you ask for a girl’s opinion with such low emotional intelligence, it shows that you are not motivated, capable, and cannot bring happiness to the girl. Then why should the girl continue to develop with you?
The above is the useful information on blind dates brought to you today. As long as you memorize these topics, your blind date success rate will definitely make a qualitative leap.
