Love is exclusive, and so is sex. No one wants to see their significant other fall in love with someone other than themselves, but some women are just not self-disciplined enough, fail to keep their bottom line, and cheat. So what are the thoughts of such cheating women? ?
Next, let’s take a look at the self-reports of three cheating women.
What are the thoughts of a cheating woman?
1. I am more gentle and considerate towards my husband
Ms. Luo:
Me My husband and I met on a blind date. Although the relationship between the two of us is not deep enough and we don't have the feeling of calling, we can't say there is anything wrong with it. We are the kind of people who are suitable for marriage.
I have been married for 5 years and now have a son.
People say they have the seven-year itch. I have found that some couples may not need the seven-year itch, let’s just talk about us. Now our lives are getting duller day by day.
Because I wanted to take care of my children, I changed my job. In my new unit, I fell in love with a handsome boy who was 2 years younger than me. After a department dinner, I accidentally cheated.
From the bottom of my heart, I resist cheating and extramarital affairs. I'm also worried that it will affect my current marriage. After all, being with that handsome boy is just seeking something new, and there will be no results.
Therefore, I am full of guilt towards my husband.
Since I cheated, I have been more gentle and considerate towards my husband, and I always want to make it up to him. I hope my husband doesn’t know about this.
2. Dare not look directly into her husband’s eyes
Ms. Liu:
I am 38 years old this year. Although I am a mother of two children, because I take good care of myself, my figure and face are still good, and I can be said to have "still charm."
What makes me feel unhappy is that my husband and I seem to be living apart from each other. I can’t stand many of my husband’s living habits and work style. We have been sleeping in separate beds for 5 years.
Regarding married life, after a few years of marriage, I have never taken the initiative, but I generally will not refuse my husband's request.
During the day, everyone has their own work, and the days go by very quickly, so we just make do with it.
However, I never thought that I would cheat on myself, and the person I cheated on was a divorced man.
I run a milk tea shop myself. That man often comes to my shop to drink milk tea. Sometimes, he also brings many buddies to our shop to support me. When our store's business was slow, he would help me make plans. We got along very well, and over time we developed feelings and did things we shouldn't have done.
Although my feelings for my husband continue to drain away as time goes by, when I do something wrong, when facing my husband, I am still like a child who has stolen something, and I am afraid of being caught. psychology.
When eating or chatting, I am afraid of seeing my husband’s eyes and will avoid it.
This feeling is just like my attitude towards married life. I should avoid it if I can.
3. Both parties cheated, and they knew each other tacitly
Ms. Luo:
< p> I am 42 years old and have been married to my husband for 12 years. My husband is 3 years younger than me.At that time, my husband was interested in my family’s financial situation, and I was an only child, so he risked his life to pursue me.
After marriage, his life was without any pressure. However, soon after, his enthusiasm for me waned greatly, and many times when I took the initiative, I would encounter "soft nails". I find it very strange, and it doesn’t match our age and the state we should be in, and I feel very puzzled.
Once, I accidentally saw my husband chatting with another woman. Later, I peeked at their ambiguous text messages and found out that my husband was cheating on me.
At that time, I couldn’t accept it, because in daily life, I saw that my husband still cared about me and the children, especially the children.
To be honest, marriage is not easy, and I don’t want to get divorced because of it. Let’s walk and watch first.
Maybe it was the "revenge" mentality that was at work. In the end, I also cheated. The psychology is somewhat balanced.
We have a tacit understanding that we each live our own lives. The frequency of our life as a couple is like a company paying wages.
