Question: I like a girl. She and I are in the same university but not the same college. We know each other but don’t talk often. We will say hello to each other when we meet. I also added her as a friend on WeChat, but she doesn’t post much in Moments or play games. How can I chat with her if I don’t have any topics? I'm afraid that taking the initiative to chat with her will be counterproductive if there is no topic to talk about.
PS: I haven’t been blocked. There is a girl in my class who is a close friend with whom I have a very good relationship. I asked her to check it out. I am not blocked. What should I do?
How should I chase a girl who doesn’t post in her circle of friends?
Answer: Generally speaking, we think that it is more difficult to chase girls who don’t post updates than girls who post posts. Why do we say this? The reason is very simple: a girl who doesn’t post updates doesn’t give you a chance to get to know her. Even if you want to chat with her, you won’t be able to do what she likes, and subsequent development will be relatively difficult. But it doesn’t mean that you can’t chase girls who don’t post updates in your circle of friends, but you need to pay attention to methods, which will be explained in detail below:
1. Take the initiative to establish interactions with girls
It doesn’t matter if the girl you like doesn’t post in the circle of friends. As long as you can establish an “intersection” with the girl, there will be opportunities for development. There are many ways to establish intersection. For example:
1) Do you and the girl have any intersection in real life? If you meet and do activities together every day in real life, then these common things will be topics, and it is OK not to look for them online.
2) Information capture method. Even if you see information about a girl, it can become a topic and talk to her.
For example, a girl’s avatar, signature, background photo, etc. Everything you can see about her is information. Then start the conversation with this information, and then expand the topic to more topics. For example:
The avatar is XXX, which is quite cute.
The personalized signature is interesting. Did you come up with it yourself?
I heard that the circle of friends visible for three days has secrets.
You only need to start a topic related to girls, and the following information will naturally increase.
2. Actively post updates to attract girls
Besides, it doesn’t matter whether girls post updates on Moments or not. It doesn't matter, as long as your attraction is strong enough, just post it on Moments and let her take the initiative to come to you. This is the simplest mode in relationships. If you take the initiative to find you, it means that you have a lot of feelings for you and your goodwill will be overwhelming.
If a girl likes you enough, then even the coldest girl will become gentle and proactive. You don't have to think about how to chat or follow up at all. She will be very interested in listening to you patiently no matter what topic you talk about. They will even chat with you and actively pursue you. In this case, there is no need to consider not starting it.It doesn't matter whether you express your attitude or not, she is the one who comes to you anyway, easy mode.
The essence of chasing girls is this: find a way to attract people who like you, and then choose a girlfriend from these people who like you.
