I have been chatting with the girl I like for a long time, but in the end the girl is chased by another boy. The level of helplessness is no less than that of you who are a non-exercise person and want to change your lifestyle. You got up early this morning and went downstairs for a run. Stop by for breakfast, and while you're enjoying yourself you hear the fire truck coming to your side.
You originally wanted to eat some melon, so go take a look. Damn it, it was your house that was burned. All your things are inside, and you can't go back. You can only watch the fire burning. You are heartbroken and helpless. You can only wait for the fire to go out before going in, but the losses at that time are long gone. Yes, you can make money if you run out, and you can buy a computer if it breaks. But there are no more memorial gifts, or gifts left behind by loved ones while they were still alive.
You can’t change the fact that has happened, it will prick you like a thorn occasionally. You will feel resentful, and you will feel very sad every time you think about it, and you will hate yourself for not trying harder to chase girls. Although it is cruel, this is the truth.
What is the problem when the girl you like is chased by others?
Then how to prevent the girl you like from being chased by others? What happens if someone else catches you? You first need to understand, why are you being robbed in the middle of a chase? Either you are procrastinating, or you are not talking about the key points all day long.
Under normal circumstances, it only takes 1-90 days to pursue a girl. If it exceeds that, there is something wrong. What's wrong?
Or you have always emphasized that you should give silently as a friend and dare not be ambiguous.
Either you are weighing whether it’s worth investing in, and you can’t say you like it.
Either one party is fishing for the other party, and it is just for fun.
Or... I really don’t like it, I’m just passing the time.
He gives in blindly, hoping to impress the girl through his silent dedication, letting the girl know that he will never leave her, and finally choose to be with him. This strategy has long been outdated and of little use. Now the most reliable way to get out of a single relationship is to have your own life and invite the other party to participate. How to understand? Let me give you an example.
If I can cook, clean, and work well. You are a girl, will you choose me? To be determined, there are too many people of this type.
Suppose I can cook, clean, have a great job, have a house and a car, and be handsome and tall. You are a girl, will you choose me? To be determined, I'm afraid I won't be able to handle it.
Suppose I crush you in terms of money, appearance, and all aspects. You are a girl, will you choose me? To be determined, I have no sense of participation.
Do you understand? If you make women feel that they don’t have a sense of participation, no matter how good you are, they will have no reason to participate. You have to invite people.
Just like when we talk about cooking, you just say that you cook a lotWhat's the use of a cow? Can I take a bite of it? You have to invite me to your house for dinner and express that you can cook it for me, or we can cook together and let me prepare the ingredients! I have to participate.
So why can’t you be together after talking for so long? Your life is not linked to her life, so you can’t get involved! You can't even have fun together, but you still have a rough relationship. You say yours and she says hers, which is very boring. You have to learn to invite others to participate, and you have to learn to take the initiative to fight for it.
Just because you have been chatting with a girl for a long time but don’t push forward the relationship, it doesn’t mean that other men won’t push forward the relationship. It doesn't mean that girls are willing to wait until you are ready before confessing to you. Finally, boys are like hunters. It's normal to take the initiative, but don't express it mindlessly.
