The girl who was flirting with you yesterday has suddenly become cold towards you today. What’s the reason? Boys are puzzled. They don’t know where they went wrong even if they want to try to make amends. How to change? I am at a loss. I seem very innocent and don't know what to do. A girl suddenly treats you coldly, how do you figure out the reason?
If you care about your relationship with the girl and don't want to give up on her, then you can only rely on guessing. Or ask about the situation from a girl's best friend, and try to avoid asking the girl directly. This will make it appear that you are wrong and don't realize it, and feel that you cannot communicate with you, and the girl will be more indifferent to you. Let’s talk about what to do if a girl suddenly becomes indifferent to you:
1. Analyze the problem
Think carefully What did you say and do before a girl became cold towards you? What actions of yours might make a girl angry and disappointed, leading her to become cold towards you? For example, what did you say that would be very chauvinistic? "Women get married." After that, you should stay at home to take care of your husband and raise your children." "What's so delicate about women giving birth to children?"... In this case, of course girls will be angry. Or you truthfully revealed the romantic details of your previous relationship, which made the girl jealous because you have never done such a romantic thing to her (if you don't seek death, you won't die). Or you were late paying the bill when you were having dinner, which made her think you were stingy... In short, there must be a reason why a girl suddenly treats you coldly, and you need to judge the problem based on the details of your previous interactions. Where is it?
2. Find the problem
After analyzing the details of your relationship before and after, you must have a sudden attraction to the girl. The cold attitude has become more obvious. Maybe you don't think these are big problems at ordinary times, and you don't care about them, then you need to pay more attention to them in the future. Moreover, girls like to think too much, and often very small problems will be magnified infinitely by her, and finally they will explode at a certain moment. She will suddenly lose confidence in your relationship, lose trust in you, and have no illusions about your future. This is reflected in her attitude towards you, which is that she suddenly becomes very cold. No matter how cold a girl is, in fact, as long as you can find out the problem, it will be much easier to solve later.
3. Solve the problem
Next, you have to start thinking about how to restore the girl’s opinion of you. . It is recommended here that you have proper contact with the girl first, and when she is willing to give you a chance to explain, find an appropriate way and opportunity to have a good talk with her. Although girls are sensitive and suspicious, they are also very soft-hearted. As long as you are sincere to her and tell her your true inner thoughts, you must also tell herShow her your sincerity and how you will change in the future, so that girls can regain hope in you. But you have to do it after you say it, otherwise girls will suddenly become cold to you sooner or later.
4. Things to note
When analyzing the reasons why a girl suddenly becomes cold towards you, you should try your best to Look for the reasons within yourself, and don’t look for problems with girls. Even if girls have problems, it’s still not the key. And there is no right or wrong in relationships, there is only love and dislike. If you still love her, tolerate her more and wait until she is willing to look back before discussing the issues between you!
