When chatting with a girl on WeChat, the most painful thing is that you coded a long string of text and sent it to her, but she didn’t reply to you at the first time. The even more painful thing is that after waiting for an hour, she didn’t reply. He told her a brief three treasures: What are you doing, haha, go take a bath.
So why are girls so slow and brief in replying to WeChat?
In fact, when chatting with girls on WeChat, It is very common for her to reply briefly and slowly, and when you have doubts about the time and word count of her reply to you, then you have already lost in your heart. Excessive concern about gains and losses will make you have a feeling: Am I The idea of ????not being good enough or not working hard enough, and then exposing your sense of need to girls will make you more and more passive in subsequent interactions, and step by step towards a disadvantage.
Then it becomes girls making all kinds of mistakes, and boys trying to apologize in all kinds of undignified ways. Of course, there are also many opposite situations, where girls are cheating and boys are scumbags.
As the saying goes: Every cause must have its effect, and your retribution will be you! Why is it that girls reply to WeChat very slowly and briefly.
1. Not interested in you
The most common thing is that she is not interested in you, so you give her Sending a WeChat message was regarded as a kind of harassment, which aroused her resentment, but because of face (that is, the relationship between you and me is just average, and I don’t want to break up with you), she pretended not to see it, and waited for a long time before replying. An excuse to put it off.
2. Your sense of need is too strong
The content of your chat with a girl is either that you want to ask a girl out to play, or that you want to chase this girl. Anyway, the girl clearly understands that you want to Pursue her, the girl will be tired of your strong and mindless love offensive and doesn't want to reply to you.
3. The chat content is too boring
This situation is very common. Girls are looking forward to chatting with you, but you don’t know what to talk about with girls. If the girl thinks you are boring, it may not be a good idea to ignore you directly, so she will choose to gradually become cold to you.
4. Girls are busy with their own affairs
Of course, it cannot be ruled out that girls are busy with their own affairs and have no time to reply to you in time.
So how to deal with such slow and simple replies from girls on WeChat?
1. Go to her Moments to like and comment
If a girl is deliberately slow to reply to WeChat messages, you can go to her Moments to like and comment to check the girl’s attitude towards you. If the girl replies to you in the Moments There are two possibilities:
1) The girl may not have seen your message
2) The girlLife is giving you an opportunity
At this time, you should seize the opportunity and send another message to the girl. Of course, the content must be of interest to the girl, such as:
Boys: Looking at the photos in your circle of friends, they don’t look like you in person (stimulating girls’ emotions)
Girls: Oh
Boys: You look much better in person than in the photos
< p> Girls: HahaOr
Why didn’t you reply to my messages? I don’t like you secretly thinking about me
Don’t worry about why girls didn’t reply to your messages. On this topic, talk to the other person about topics that interest her.
2. Replying to girls’ messages becomes slower
If you are chatting happily and the other party replies Messages become slower. At this time, don't get too excited or feel annoyed, because if you are annoyed, it means you are panicked.
Since girls are slower in replying to messages, we will also be slower in replying to messages. The advantage of this is that if you deliberately don’t reply to your messages in the women’s club, you can effectively avoid entering the girls’ test, and you will not be in the girls’ club. Showing neediness in front of girls.
3. Chat with the same frequency
If she replies quickly when chatting with you, you should also be faster. She is slow, so don’t reply in seconds. She replies with a few words. Don’t send a lot of text every time.
She’s obviously already done it, so you shouldn’t post any more topics, and you should take the initiative to end the chat. When chatting, if you are just hot, it will be over. The hot party is destined to become humble and have no initiative.
In short, if the conversation is good, then have a good conversation. If the conversation is not going smoothly, you should retreat and end it as soon as possible. Don't be in a fight. Forcing the conversation will only be counterproductive. Another point is that chatting is not to please a woman, but to make your communication smoother so that she can slowly get to know you and build attraction.
