Life is never smooth sailing, and the same is true for relationships. We will always fall into misunderstandings of one kind or another in this life, and many relationships end in vain before the ambiguous time comes. So in order to make your ambiguous time come smoothly, today I will talk to you about the four major misunderstandings in pursuing girls.
1. Entering the friendship zone with girls
When chasing girls, you must clearly remember: What is your original intention?
Many friends will ask: I don’t want to be friends with her, but somehow we became friends inexplicably.
The way to change is very simple: Zhang Chi is with you.
Go shopping with her, watch movies, chat on WeChat, and do everything you like. After finding out what she likes, she should say no. As for how to refuse, for example, if you watch 100 movies with her and you don’t go to the 101st one, your relationship will change.
They say the first step in falling in love is to be friends. This friend is not asking the two of you to have a crush on you, but asking you to let the girl you like feel your company and make her feel dependent.
2. Mistakenly believing that confession will lead to success
Here I ask the majority of male compatriots: If Confession can make things happen, why can idol dramas last more than 40 episodes?
There was a popular saying on the Internet: "Confession is a ceremony to confirm a relationship, not a clarion call to charge."
Don't worry that the young lady doesn't know that you like her. You have been a woman for so many years. , no matter how bad you are, you will still meet a few bad guys who want to eat cabbage.
What you need to do is to show off slowly. If you haven’t known each other before, then find a chance to get to know each other first, and then show off slowly.
During the performance process, collect useful information and get through to your best friends.
Don’t underestimate a woman’s intuition. As long as you are not too subtle, your little sister will definitely be able to detect it.
3. Don’t know how to spend money
It is inevitable to try to arrange almost necessary expenses with young ladies. . But the money has to be spent in the right places.
Girls generally have higher material needs. The pile of shoes, bags, clothes, lipstick and cosmetics can cost a bank safe.
But you have to understand that lifestyle determines material needs. Before she met you, she was doing fine on her own. Therefore, you don’t have to buy this or that, she can definitely maintain her basic daily life by herself.
So where should your money be spent?
The answer is simple: spend it on surprises.
Pay more attention to her preferences, there must be some in a girl’s lifeSomething she wants very much, but she cannot afford or is unwilling to buy. When you find out, your money comes in handy.
There is a second use for money: best friends.
If you want to embrace the beauty, it is essential to get through to your best friends. What does a bestie do? A bestie is the closest contact in her life.
From dinner to wedding, the shadow of best friends is everywhere. If you can buy some snacks and lipstick for your bestie to open up this joint, are you still afraid that no one will help you?
4. Clarify your position
Before the girl agrees, you are just an ordinary friend. If you support her to death, you will be considered as more than a friendship, but not a lover.
Therefore, at this time, do not regard yourself as your boyfriend and do not interfere too much in her life.
Who does she like to play with. At this time, you must not express dissatisfaction. If you really can't stand jealousy, then just go along with it shamelessly.
If there is only one boy and one girl, plus you have two boys and one girl, this is your chance.
There is no girl who doesn’t like boys who are organized and talk clearly. And your goal is to become such a boy. Even if you don't meet the standards of a gentleman, you still have to pretend to be one.
In short, you have to perform better than the other boy. Wherever the good birds and good trees dwell is the right place.
When eating, after he finishes ordering, you give the menu to the girl. After eating, he goes to the bathroom and you pay the bill. When she goes out to play, you help her carry her bag, and when she sleeps on the way, you tell her jokes.
Don’t miss any historical buildings, places of interest and historic sites you see. Express them naturally and don’t pretend to be a scholar. As long as you pretend to be better than the other boy, it will definitely be just the two of you next time we go out.
