Question: Recently my girlfriend gave me a bonus and said she wanted to treat me. In fact, I usually spend most of my money on dates and meals. Since she said she wanted to treat me, of course I happily accepted it. She treated me to a seafood feast, which cost four to five hundred dollars. Then during the seafood meal, she kept saying that she wanted me to treat me to two meals in return, which was only fair. Then she said she wanted to eat Haidilao, and I said I didn’t need to use the 40% off coupon. Then she asked me: Why can’t I treat me to regular-priced food? I said I wanted to ask, is it shameful to use coupons to treat my girlfriend to dinner? Why can’t I use the coupons?
Is it shameful to use coupons to treat your girlfriend to dinner?
Answer: For me, when meeting a girl for the first time, I try not to use coupons, so as not to leave a stingy impression on the girl. But you are already a boyfriend and girlfriend, so of course you can use coupons for meals.
You can ask your girlfriend: What is the purpose of reporting on 618, Double Eleven and other similar shopping festivals? Is it possible that hundreds of millions of people across the country are embarrassed together? The original price of a product is not easy to sell, so merchants start discount promotions. Will your girlfriend think that the discounted product she bought is not the original price, and clamor for the merchant to sell it to her at the original price?
The original cost of a meal is 200. You have a coupon, but the actual cost is only 100. Is it possible that it is shameful for you to spend 100 on a meal worth 200? People who think that the existence of coupons is a loss of face must have something wrong with their brains.
And from the fact that she invited you to dinner, we can see a lot of problems.
1. A meal of seafood costing four to five hundred dollars is not considered high-end consumption, so there is no need to look down on coupons so much.
2. While you were eating seafood, she repeatedly emphasized that she had paid four to five hundred dollars for this meal, and you had to treat her to two meals in return. You never thought that you spent money on the previous dates. This shows that she is a bit selfish and only sees her own contribution.
3. There is no need to talk about whether to use coupons or not. She can have that kind of idea without having to analyze it. It is obvious that she has a good idea.
From the perspective of us normal consumers, everyone is trying their best not to become leeks of capital, but there are just such a few maverick people who are willing to be such leeks. She thinks it's embarrassing for you to use coupons, and we think she's hilariously stupid.
Although the sense of family between two people in love is not as good as that in marriage, many couples also understand that two people have what they need together. of common interests. Whether it is eating, traveling, or having fun, the money saved by couples is the balance of their joint consumption, and will also be used for future consumption expenses. It is very cost-effective for both emotions and reasons.
Why doesn’t your girlfriend want you to use the 50% off coupon?Please pay the regular price, isn't it because she is thinking in her heart that if you buy two meals, one meal costs more than 200 yuan, and the price of the two meals can just match the seafood dinner she invited you. If you use consumption coupons, then the consumption of more than 200 becomes more than 100. If you use the consumption coupons for two meals, she will not be able to get back her money after eating you two meals. It's just a shame, so I won't eat it anyway.
So why are you still in love with her? What's there to talk about with a woman who seems generous but actually cares about everything, and who will take it back from you no matter how much she gives you?
