Loving someone is not just about talking about it, but it needs to be implemented in every detail. For women, the most intuitive feeling comes from form, but form requires money to support it. So part of the charm of many uncles comes from money. Nowadays, many young girls are willing to date uncles. Why is this? Let’s analyze in detail why young girls like uncles and why women like uncles.
Why young girls like uncles
1. The ability to support their feelings.
Generally speaking, men who can be called "uncle" always have better economic conditions. Compared with those young boys, their wealth has been accumulated. Then they are fully capable of expressing their emotions and using some tangible form to prove their emotions.
Even if the girl is not directly greedy for his money, she will not encounter the embarrassment caused by financial problems when we are together. Therefore, the personality charm of the "uncle" will be amplified to the extreme, and it feels like he is so confident and calm in doing things.
2. Experience creates the charm of "uncle".
When people reach a certain age, or when they reach middle age, their mentality will always change to a certain extent, and they will no longer care about all the little things in life. Only birth, old age, illness and death can affect their calmness. Nothing seems worthy of their anger, nothing worthy of their concern.
So in the process of getting along with a girl, "uncle" is always very tolerant of her shortcomings, and will not think about changing his own shortcomings, as long as you have what I am greedy for The things I coveted are still there, that's all.
3. Experienced “uncle” understands women better.
No matter how many reasons you have heard, it is better to summarize your own experience. After all, there must be more than one woman in "uncle's" life, so he must know better than younger boys how to get along with women.
Know what a woman is thinking when and what she needs. When it’s time to be silent, never ask the bottom line; when it’s time to send comfort, never pay attention.
So it will give girls a feeling of being close to a distant place. When "uncle" is close to him, he will not feel burdened, but when he is a little far away, he will be particularly uneasy. In a nutshell, no matter how much you like someone or how affectionate you are, you will always maintain a good sense of emotional boundaries and propriety. Of course, the experience also includes care and concern in life, giving women the warmth they want.
4. Of course "Uncle" can pretend.
When two people are together, it’s not how tolerant, tolerant or doting the “uncle” is towards her, but that his thoughts are not on the same level as yours at all, so he doesn’t care about her. You, try not to quarrel with you. After disguising a nonchalant attitude, it becomesDeep and true love for you. Therefore, many girls are confused by the disguise of "uncle" and have no idea of ??the real situation. He's not serious about you.
Why women like uncle-type men
1. There is a gap in emotional needs.
As a woman, you actually know what you are doing at all times, but there are some things you are not willing to say at this time, because some things are always It's changed. When a woman lacks feelings, sometimes she can't find the right person for a while, so I will choose to talk to him.
Women's emotional needs sometimes go blank. At this time, if she can't meet someone she likes for a while, she will choose to do what she wants to do with her uncle. In fact, many times there is no reason, as long as you two are happy and willing.
2. My life is not easy.
Only women choose to be with their uncles when life is difficult, so sometimes we should not think too much about things. If we feel that they are not suitable for each other, we should not force them. In fact, there is no reason for women to choose uncles. What they did was wrong, but they said many times that they felt this was the best choice.
I am with my uncle because he is better. Many times my life is not good. Men must understand that when a woman is with you many times, if there is a big age gap between you, you will not have true feelings. If you really have emotional needs, you must know the consequences of doing so.
What is the psychology of liking an uncle?
1. The old man has social wealth and high status.
In our choice of spouse, many people regard age as a very important factor. To a certain extent, a person's wealth, talent, social status, social respect, social power, etc. It is related to age.
In general, older people tend to have relatively more wealth, talent and social status. Therefore, when other conditions (health, appearance, etc.) remain relatively unchanged, many women are still willing to choose older men as their spouses.
2. Older people know how to take care of others.
Why many girls are willing to find uncles now? It’s because uncles are older than her and have more social experience than her. After experiencing some things, they understand girls’ thoughts better and know how to take care of others. In the uncle, girls can find a long-lost sense of security.
3. Older people are more mature.
Older people have a great advantage, that is, they are more mature in dealing with others. The sign of "maturity" is to see whether this person has the ability to control his own life, whether he can take good care of his own body, and whether he can be responsible for his own life.
A mature person can reasonably control his emotions and be able to calm down when encountering some things.Calm down and resolve it reasonably. When two people have some conflicts, he will not just be cold-blooded with you, but will consider you from your perspective.
A girl can actually save a lot of worry by being with such a man. This is also true, so many girls prefer to be with older people.
