Although it is easy to feel whether you like or dislike something, for many boys who are inexperienced in love, when facing a girl they like, it is always easy to have the illusion that she likes me. So, let’s talk about how to tell if a girl likes you.
A girl’s affection for a boy is generally divided into three levels:
1. Wants to know you
2. Wants to attract your attention
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3. I want to establish contact with you.
1. Want to know you
The most basic level of goodwill is mainly reflected in wanting more Get your information, this level of goodwill is more reflected in the initial stage of acquaintance, especially when two people just meet and get to know each other, there will be a lot of first-level signals.
[Girls who like you]
l Actively ask for your information: how old are you, what is your zodiac sign, what do you do...
l Actively ask your opinion: What do you think, do you think it will work, what kind of person do you think I am...
l Actively ask about your movements: What are you doing? Well, where are you going, where are you going on vacation...
[Girls who don’t like you]
l Self-care attitude: immerse yourself in your own hands They lower their heads and play with their mobile phones, and their eyes are reasonably wandering at parties
lSelf-arbitrary tone: rarely ask for your opinion, or just normal interactions without special care
lVery rarely Attitude of attention: No idea about your social dynamics
2. Want to attract your attention
A deeper good impression will be reflected in future chats. After more exchanges, the other party will gain enough information about you, and their good impression of you will only deepen (if you don't make any big mistakes in the process). After completing the initial chat exchange, the other party will often take the initiative to show you some information at this stage.
[Girls who like you]
l Take the initiative to take up your topic: After a topic ends in the chat, you will not let the short silence fall into silence, but will find some interesting topics. Continue the topic that is not relevant, and do not let the silence appear
l Take the initiative to share your own experience: During the chat, you will take the initiative to share some of your own experience to cater to the topic you are talking about, or guide you to say something Next topic
l Actively start the topic: I chat with you more often, interact more frequently on social software, and start sharing other related push notifications with you
【I don’t like you Girls】
lDelay and interruption of communication: number of repliesReduce or even not reply (if it appears multiple times, it can be regarded as not interested, and once or twice, it may be busy)
l Let silence happen: every conversation between you ends because of this topic It’s over, as long as a topic is finished, you may end the chat
3. Want to establish contact with you
The third level of signals can be said to be the strongest signals. Basically once these signals appear, the other party can say that there is a 90% probability that they are interested in you, and then you should prepare to guide the final confession or planning. The final confession.
But it is worth noting: Don’t let the third-level signal stay for too long, because the appearance of the third-level signal often means that the window is wide open. At this time, if you let the other party wait too long, the other party will Instead, she may think that you are just a casual person and have no intention of getting along with her seriously.
[Girls who like you]
l is more willing to accept your invitation: the success rate of inviting the other party is very high, and the other party is willing to go out with you for one-on-one communication and dating
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l Invite or hint that you can invite: Take the initiative to invite you to participate in some activities, or hint that you have been idle recently and ask if you know anything interesting
l Willing to spend more time with you: I don’t mind increasing the time during the date, I can go to more places with you, and I don’t resist staying with you until late
[Girls who don’t like you]< /h3>
lInvitations are difficult and the probability of success is very low: almost every invitation is declined, and even more than three invitations in a row are rejected
lAccept invitations, but it is always a group activity: Only accepts invitations from more than one person, and is only willing to appear in group gatherings. Once a one-on-one request is made, it is often declined.
l Eagerness to end the relationship: In one-on-one dates, also They often use emergencies as an excuse to leave early, or simply do activities such as eating and drinking tea, and are unwilling to participate in other types of activities
