Chasing girls in love is actually a process for boys to show themselves and promote themselves. If they want to quickly capture the hearts of girls, they need to master some love skills.
1. Attraction
When two people first get to know each other, if you are attracted to a girl Saying, "I've been paying attention to you for a long time, let's get to know each other," conveys interest; but if you tell her straightforwardly, "I like you, please be my girlfriend," It conveys a sense of need.
Pure interest will make the other person bump into each other, because the other person feels that her charm has been recognized; while the sense of need will make the other person feel disturbed, because she has to bear the responsibility of rejecting you subconsciously. cost.
And in what aspects is the charm of boys reflected? Mainly visual value, behavioral value and social value.
Visual value is how you feel at first glance, behavioral value mainly includes your speech and behavior, and social value represents the evaluation of you by people around you.
Generally speaking, when it comes to dressing, no girl will hate it if a boy is at least tidy. If you learn some humorous speaking methods, you can already leave a very good impression on girls.
Generally speaking, in the early stages of dating, in order to attract the girl we like, we can work more on visual value and behavioral value. When getting along with the opposite sex, we must maintain a "interested, but not interested" attitude. demand” status.
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2. Worship
Higher-level attraction comes from our ability to be like the king of beasts. Your leadership qualities will make her admire you.
We often see this kind of scene in life: when a girl asks a boy for advice, the boy says casually, which makes the girl very unhappy.
In fact, a girl doesn’t have to get an answer from you, she just wants you to help her arrange everything.
So around this idea, the more recommended way of replying is that boys should not only provide girls with choices, but also actively lead girls to make choices.
It would be better if you incorporate some humorous chatting methods to arouse her emotions.
For example, when a girl asks you, "What should we eat tonight?" you can ask, "Which one do you want, steak or ramen?" If she answers "steak," you can say, " Since you want to eat steak, I’ll take you to eat sushi.”
3. Love
Everyone has a sensitive and fragile side, and they also have a loving heart and see the vulnerability of others. Involuntarily develop empathy with the other person.
This example is relatively common. For example, when you are chatting with a girl, you talk about the relationship history of both parties. Breaking up must be painful. If you and she have both been seriously hurt in your relationship, you will have a feeling of "being in the same world" and treating each other as a confidant while chatting.
And we won’t talk about these topics to everyone, we will only talk to people we trust.
The same goes for girls. When the "exchange of private information" occurs, under the influence of the "collusion" principle in psychology, the distance between the two people will be closer than before. This It's a secret that only you two know.
