More and more things in life will make them lose themselves, become worse and worse, and even want to leave. Marriage divorce may be caused by the following aspects. What are the signs that marriage is not far away? Let’s take a look!
1. Don’t give in to each other
Fighting every day will make people feel uncomfortable tired. No one wants their life to be a mess, and no one wants their marriage to be full of arguments. If two people cannot tolerate each other, small problems will slowly turn into big problems, and then become more intense. Every ounce of concern for the little things in life makes a relationship more and more fragile. If two people can tolerate each other, then the marriage will get better and better.
2. Don’t care about each other
I believe that at the beginning of every love, there will be meticulous care and warmth from you and me. But later when I entered the marriage hall, I felt that the other person was already my own. I can do whatever I want and want to show my true self, so I am too lazy to compare myself, don't care about the other person's feelings, and don't think about problems from the other person's perspective. As time went on, I became more and more selfish. I only focus on myself. A relationship is over.
3. Cold War
In fact, quarreling is still a good thing. After all, two people can communicate. The most terrifying thing is the Cold War. Two people don't need to pay attention to each other, and neither one is too lazy to pay attention to the other. Their problems cannot be solved. Over time, when problems accumulate to a certain level, they will break out of the cage and destroy relationships and marriages.
For those who are not far from getting married, there will be friction in life. After all, no two people in the world are completely complementary, and no two people are exactly the same. From strangers to couples, everything needs to be adjusted. Friction is not terrible. What matters is how the friction is resolved. A blind cold war will only drive each other further apart. If this marriage is to last, the Cold War must end. If the other person still has feelings, you must learn to bow your head. Bowing your head doesn't mean it's your fault, it just means you care more about the relationship and the other person's feelings. So no matter what, whether it's a quarrel or a fight, don't be cold-blooded.
