Marriage is a major event in life, and a happy marriage is everyone’s dream. A happy marriage is not only for two people, but also for two families. But in real life, many people are unhappy in their marriages. Most happy marriages are like this, but every unhappy marriage is unhappy in its own way.
1. Husband and wife ignore each other.
The resentment is too deep to convince their hearts to forgive each other's mistakes. It is better to meet each other than to meet each other, to see anger, to hate extremes, to feel the end of the world, to find light in marriage, and to let darkness always envelope their souls. To get away from it, they have to get divorced.
A loveless couple
Just to solve physical needs, and then choose to be together for the sake of their children. The result is that if there is no interest in love, there is no progress in the relationship, and there is no emotional foundation, the marriage is an empty house with nothing, and it will go bankrupt at any time.
3. Too many words without speculation
Even if the other party is wrong, the other party will not admit it. Instead, he used strong words to make excuses. The post-war calm was replaced by the Cold War. Their lives are fun again and again, and the other person will find fault with you. When you are close to perfect in what you say and do, the other person will ignore most of your perfections and pick out a small part of your imperfections. After all, no one or thing is perfect. What the other party does is to find fault with the eggs. As the saying goes: If you want to commit a crime, why not do it?
4. Cold violence
People often hate a kind of behavior, that It's cold violence. Say nothing, do nothing, just like cold strangers unable to enter each other's world. When you want to talk, you are faced with a piece of ice, which will make you cold until you feel discouraged.
5. Men and women are not sincere
In the past, many people got married first and then developed relationships, but as time goes by, this phenomenon becomes more and more common. The less. In an era where freedom of love is advocated, who wants to fall in love after marriage? Neither men nor women express their true feelings, but choose a kind of hypocrisy to express their love. Too much hypocrisy can create an unhappy marriage.
6. Three different views
As for the manifestations of unhappy marriages between couples, many unhappy marriages have an obvious feature, which is the three views. Grossly inconsistent. The root of this contradiction is largely due to the fact that they were in love for a short period of time, had a flash marriage, or went on a blind date and got married after being in contact for a period of time. The lack of thorough understanding before marriage leads to the discovery of many different ideas after marriage.
