In our impression, women prefer bad men, and the same is true when chatting on WeChat. They will always choose to chat with men who are bad, humorous and teasing.
If you are too honest, you will find that it is often easy to die chatting with girls. The more you talk, the more you have nothing to say, and the more you talk, the more awkward you become.
As the saying goes, if a man is not bad, a woman will not love him. But inside
"Bad" actually doesn't mean bad in the original sense, but that men are interesting, humorous, different, and sentimental. It refers to the excitement, passion, fun, and even romantic feelings that we men can bring to girls.
Therefore, if you want to happily chat with girls, you need to be a man who knows how to be "bad".
Next, the editor will bring you some WeChat chat skills of bad men, I hope you can benefit from them.
When chatting with girls on WeChat
Girls asked: How tall are you
Most boys replied: 178cm
Like this Replies are boring and boring. A question-and-answer chat format will lack emotion. A chat without emotion will naturally have no emotion at all.
Girls take the initiative to ask, which shows that girls want to know more or less. We, or screening us, should be a good thing, because it can also show that girls have a certain interest in us and a desire to explore.
Speaking of exploration, exploration is a very interesting thing. For example, many people like to play games, such as level-breaking games. At the beginning, you explore with full curiosity and expectation. Just after playing the second level, all the content that will appear later in the game is presented due to the designer's omissions. First of all, we will feel that this is a very watery game, and secondly, we will definitely feel that this game must be terrible.
This is just like girls exploring us. We tell girls all at once that it is difficult for girls to have the desire to continue exploring. But with a few interesting, difficult, and exciting points in the game level design, players will have a great time playing it, and even play it until they pass the level.
The same goes for chatting with girls. We must learn to maintain our own sense of mystery and let girls continue to have a desire to explore us. This is also the true meaning of why some men are "bad".
Therefore, when girls ask questions, we can actually reply like this, which not only gives us the initiative, but also does not appear boring.
Back to this example:
The girl asked: How tall are you?
You Reply: Are you so concerned about my height to see if you can kiss me by standing on tiptoes?
Girls replied: No way
Your reply: Do you know the cutest height difference?
Girls: I don’t know.
Boys: The difference is just 13cm
Girl: Oh
Boy: Then you have 165
Girl replied: Almost
Boy replied: Then you really have to stand on tiptoes
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In this way, you can ask her, and the topic orientation is more interesting and humorous. The serious Q&A mode at the beginning will become a joke, and the atmosphere will be more relaxed.
Another example
The girl asked: Have you eaten?
You Reply: Yeah, yeah, I’ve had it
With another question and answer, it’s easy to end a chat directly. Since you want to catch up with her, you definitely want to continue chatting with her< /p>
So we can reply like this
The girl asked: Have you eaten?
You replied: You have eaten, but you feel hungry again. (Add a topic, I’m hungry, the point is to add a topic and continue it)
Or
The girl asked: Have you eaten?
Your reply: 6 o’clock I ate, but I saw you were hungry again. (To put it off, girls will be curious why they see me hungry)
Girls ask: Why?
You reply: You said in your dream last night that you wanted to treat me to dinner, do you want to treat me~ (Girls will have mood swings, and they will also be curious about why it is me who is treating you)
The girl replies: Tsk, why am I treating you?
You reply: You are treating me, Pay the bill (simple and humorous, it won’t make girls think you are stingy)
The girl replied: Hahaha
Therefore, you can find opportunities to meet up to eat delicious food. Even if the girl says she doesn't have time, at least such a chat will not seem boring. This is a sign of your progress.
In short, when girls ask questions, we respond very seriously. Although there will be no big trouble, but every time we ask and answer, it is obvious that girls will not like it very much. On the contrary If she meets a slightly better man who can chat, she will be easily attracted away. Don't think that women are philanderers or scumbags, but understand the reality of this society and the sexes.
Therefore, when a girl asks you a question on WeChat, it is right to be serious sometimes and "bad" sometimes. This will not be too honest or too flashy, and it will be a proper chat. Making girls find it interesting will make them like chatting with you.