When getting along with a girl, one second she was talking and laughing with you, and the next second she suddenly changed her attitude. This is actually because she did some behavior that disgusted her. So what are the behaviors of boys that make girls disgusted? What about disgust?
1. Lemon essence
There used to be only three things in human nature: repeater and real fragrance. , pigeons, but what is worthy of congratulations is that through the hard work of scientists, the fourth essence of human beings has recently been successfully discovered: lemon essence!
In fact, the word lemon essence is not like a curse word now, more There is a bit of ridicule in it. For example, when others boast about their happiness and success, we find that their lives are better than ours, so we boast about our lemon essence and make fun of ourselves for not being as good as others.
It’s okay to be a lemon once in a while, and it can even motivate you to move forward.
But not everyone knows how to be a kind "lemon spirit" correctly. It can be said that some people really regard themselves as lemons. They don't want to see the good of others, and they are sour in everything. After being sour to themselves, they have to sour others. Then this kind of acidity is no longer self-deprecating, but becomes a negative behavior that is not beneficial to oneself and harmful to others.
They don’t see others being kind and always like to be bitter about the people and things around them.
For example, several colleagues have a good relationship and fight with each other after work to adjust the atmosphere, but "Lemon Essence" doesn't know how to get involved, and looks on from the sidelines and feels jealous, and then the sour water begins. He went out and made all sorts of sarcastic remarks to his colleagues, and was irritating and irritable.
This became naked jealousy and malice, and I didn’t even know where his hostility came from. Looking deeply into the reason, it is actually nothing more than lack of self-confidence, but having a high self-esteem, so I always suffer setbacks and feel that I am in an unfair environment, which leads to a hostile attitude toward all positive things.
If you are sour in everything, people around you will just want to stay away from you!
There is absolutely no need for us to accumulate so much anger. See When others share their happiness and success, just give them a polite smile to show respect. When you have something worth being happy about, remember to share it and try to show your good side, so that you can gain more confidence and no longer make yourself sad because of other people's success.
2. Color and color
Food and color are related to sex.
As a man, there is nothing wrong with maintaining a lustful heart. After all, this is nature, and nature cannot be taken away. But the reason why humans are the best of all things is because we can control our own instincts. A rational man knows when to show his lustful heart and when not to.expressive.
Some people just don’t know much about it...
For example, some people see a girl’s hot photo in a QQ group or a WeChat group and send her a private message: “Would you like to date her?”
< p> Someone saw a girl with a good figure outside and stared hard at her, even glancing at her breasts.These behaviors can be said to be very impolite and unqualified, and they cause serious violation to girls.
Regarding this kind of man, a girl said: "I think as a man, it doesn't matter whether you are good-looking or not, and it doesn't matter whether you can speak. If you like a girl, just go after it slowly. But you can't Doing something that arouses public outrage makes you look like a retard."
You read that right, in the minds of girls, there is no difference between a lecherous man and a retarded man. He is just uncontrollable. He is a primitive creature with instinct.
3. No hobbies at all
When you say you have no hobbies, it may pop into someone's mind. Two words: fat house.
No, what I’m talking about now is not a fat house, but an existence that is a level lower than a fat house!
They have almost nothing they like at all, and they don’t like most things. I couldn't even get interested, so when the holidays came, I would hide in the dormitory and be in a daze, either sleeping or in a daze. At most, I would catch up on dramas.
The so-called fat nerds still have their own hobbies, right? Even if they stay at home and are addicted to games and two-dimensional games, games and animation can still be regarded as a hobby.
In order to pursue a more perfect experience, some high-end fat nerds will create fan works, study IT technology, become anchors, etc., and then these will become their life pursuits and careers. It is not impossible to become a technology nerd and become an industry leader.
If you have no hobbies or interests and are completely in a state of confusion, then you will not even have a chance of success in taking a sideways approach. It can be said that you are at the bottom of the list among diaosi.
4. Dirty
Undoubtedly, this is the most extreme performance of a diaosi, thousands of them The criteria for judging diaosi are not as high as their scores.
Don’t get me wrong, the dirty here does not refer to not taking a shower or changing clothes. We will talk about that problem later. The dirty here mainly refers to some bad habits that become natural, such as "Export becomes dirty".
Although there are not many boys like this, the problem is very serious. Most of them developed some particularly uncivilized habits due to the influence of the group when playing with their friends in junior high and high school.
When we were young, our friends always liked to form small circles. What bad habits did they have? If you are willing to be infected by them,It won't take long to mingle. If you are unwilling to learn from them, then everyone will regard you as an alien and think that you do not fit in, and then you may be excluded from the small circle, or even bullied.
Some boys who have been good at building good relationships with other people since childhood have more or less contracted this bad habit, such as:
Speaking dirty words, having a loud voice, and being addicted to smoking. Light a cigarette at any time depending on the occasion, spread your limbs when taking the bus to occupy the space of two or three people with the size of one person, pick ears, noses, and even feet in front of other people, etc.
Some people may feel after getting used to these behaviors that this is the arrogance of men! Why is it so satisfying to be a man? Isn’t it because you can indulge yourself at will without having to act like a girl.
Brother, who said that men can just let themselves go?
I believe that many people who have been to Internet cafes have seen many of these losers in Internet cafes, with a cigarette in their mouths. The country never leaves its mouth to curse, and typing on the keyboard is like typing on sworn enemies. Everyone will definitely look at you with disdain and disgust when they see this kind of person. I believe you will not sit next to such a person.
Then when you subconsciously do those vulgar behaviors, isn’t it exactly the kind of existence that makes people avoid you in the eyes of others?
