Everyone has a different personality, and the types of boys that different girls like are naturally different, but in general, if a boy has the following three qualities, most girls will like him.
1. Be able to joke in a measured way
Many people will fall into two comparisons when chasing girls. Extreme "identity".
Or you feel that you need to suppress girls, and only by making fun of girls can you get closer. So he continued to suppress girls, but he became an object of disgust for girls.
Or he caters to girls and cleans up her tears, but girls give their smiles to others, gradually becoming their emotional trash can.
In fact, neither of these two identities can make girls like themselves.
To change this, boys need to have a trait and be able to joke with a sense of proportion.
The humor and teasing should be just right. When joking, you should not directly dislike the girl, but tease some insignificant characteristics of the girl to draw your relationship closer.
Of course, if you want to make good use of this, remember to study more. After all, you can’t do this if you don’t have something in mind.
2. Dare to show your vulnerability
Dare to show your vulnerability, commonly known as "people with stories" ".
Many friends may think that I am a real man. I want to become strong and rich, and I must not show vulnerability in order to gain my own love.
In fact, this view should not be taken with any salt, because it is too nonsense.
There is nothing wrong with becoming stronger and richer, but this and having the ability to love are often two different things.
You must understand that girls who can be exchanged for money will definitely not like you. Only girls who are willing to take care of your feelings and respect your ideas will like you.
It is a good way to let girls take care of your feelings, understand your behavior, and show your vulnerability.
Everyone should note that showing vulnerability here does not mean that you complain or show cowardice, but that you let girls recognize you by showing your true experience.
There is a very useful formula called story presentation + self-awareness.
You can tell girls: “One winter night, the girl I liked at the time suddenly sent a message saying that I wanted to drink a niche milk tea that was not delivered as a takeaway. Then I walked a few kilometers to buy milk tea. When I sent it to her, my ears were red from the cold, but when she saw me, she just said: If you really don’t know how to do things, you won’t bring more snacks...” This is the story.
After she replied, you continued: "Later, I began to resent girls who only know how to make boys pay, and I also understood that good love always goes in both directions. Relying on one party's efforts can only result in sadness.. ", this is self-awareness.
As long as she hears you say this, she will definitely pay attention to your feelings when she gets along with you in the future, because you have made the other party recognize your mate selection framework. .
3. The ubiquitous sense of sophistication
Why do some boys never attract girls?< /p>
Out of inertial thinking, I believe everyone in front of the screen must want to say that this is because there is no money and no resources for the opposite sex.
In fact, the lack of money and the lack of female resources are not the core of the problem. The core is that honest boys don’t know how to clean up their own image.
Just like you like beautiful women, of course girls also like boys with temperament and fashion sense.
To have a sense of sophistication, you must first change your life circle and try to create yourself.
For example, take an image design class and see how the teacher dresses, and imitate it while changing.
You can also take a photo of yourself. In fact, after being dressed up by a makeup artist, you will also find that you are also a trendy man.
When many young ladies can see you. It’s so exquisite that it’s hard not to be single.
