Background checks are a way for companies to verify the authenticity of applicant information. However, some people in relationships will also investigate the other person’s background in order to prevent being deceived. Although investigating the other person in this way is very much like a transaction.
However, every time I see an honest friend taking over and being cheated, I always get angry. Think about those masters who deliberately make our hearts flutter, relying on our ignorance to make us feel that we have met true love. As a result, we were just a leek in her leek field, no different from other leeks, we were all cut.
Therefore, from the perspective of preventing being cheated and cheated, it is necessary to find out what kind of person the other person is before falling in love.
So how to do a background check in a relationship?
Talking about this, some friends may ask Said he would.
Didn’t he just go to the police station and conduct a huge search, ranging from the other person’s previous name to the names of his eighteen generations of ancestors? It's good, simple and crude, clean and no residue.
But isn’t this necessary? If we really do it like this, the cost of love will be too high.
In the current Internet age, there is no need to go to such trouble.
What kind of person the other party is, what kind of personality traits, character, character, family of origin, real social circle, and even social credit records and house opening records can all be found through the Internet and ID cards.
For example, before deciding to start, take a look at her circle of friends and take a look at her social software, Momo, Tantan, Weibo, Zhihu, Douban, etc.
You will know if it works or not.
By the way, if you are planning to get a marriage license, it is also necessary to have a pre-marital health check-up.
After all, if the other party hides it very well and the investigation fails to find out the reason, at least he can keep his health.
It is worth mentioning that these tasks are best done in private, without the other party knowing.
Otherwise, in this era of lack of trust, if the other party knew that we checked her background before falling in love, would the relationship still be viable?
I’m afraid, we wouldn’t accept it if it were ours. .
Of course, if you are just greedy for other people’s bodies, you can ignore all of the above.
There is another benefit of a pre-relationship background check - a deeper understanding of her.
If you enter a relationship in this way, you will most likely enter a high-quality relationship.
The so-called high-quality love is a love that makes you happy. And the fastest way to get to know a woman is to go shopping with her.
See if she is a straight woman with terminal cancer. If not, you don’t need to accommodate, tolerate, kneel and lick her on a large scale.Buy buy buy. The best way to understand a woman is to observe her life.
If she spends all day on social media, there is a high probability that it is not worth our sincerity. Maybe we are just a fish in the other party's fish pond.
What kind of person spends all day on social media?
People whose time is worthless. Look at those girls who post selfies (fishing) on ??WeChat Moments all day long, look at those girls who go to nightclubs and dance all day long, why should we spend hundreds of thousands to get married?
Finally, I hope everyone understands a truth.
A man’s partner determines his upper limit. Because if his partner's vision of life ideals is mediocre or vulgar, then this man will be too easy to muddle along and give up on higher-level pursuits. He will think that I can just struggle like this.
Some people are shallow, and some people are beautiful on the outside but ruined inside. One day, you will meet a person who is as gorgeous as a rainbow. When you meet this person, you will feel that other people are just floating clouds. Friends, love is beautiful, but only if you keep your eyes open and don’t jump into pitfalls.
