As one of the main culprits that lead to emotional breakdown, the issue of infidelity has attracted too much attention and has always been a hot topic. Whether it is novels or TV series, this subject has never stopped being discussed.
When it comes to the word cheating, most people understand it as something that should not happen with someone of the opposite sex other than their partner.
Most people find it difficult to stay rational when they find that their partner has something that shouldn't happen with someone of the opposite sex. They either have a big fight or break up. Some people even cheat on themselves out of revenge.
Of course, some people will be very rational and find ways to repair relationships.
In short, most people hate physical cheating very much, but they don’t pay much attention to mental cheating. In fact, in many cases, physical cheating is more serious than mental cheating.
When a woman cheats on her mentally, men will basically not take any measures. Basically, they just feel bad and unhappy. That’s all. Then after complaining in my heart for a while, I choose to endure it, or simply feel that I am being petty and thinking too much.
Because in many people’s minds, they always feel that mental infidelity is a vague thing. They feel that as long as there are no substantive problems, it is not considered a betrayal of marriage and relationship.
The fact is that a woman’s mental infidelity can cause you far greater harm than physical infidelity!
1. Mental cheating means that the relationship has begun to decay
Although she is still by your side every day, what she is thinking about is another man, and she wears a mask every day and lives a seemingly inseparable life.
She will compare you with another man from time to time, find fault with you everywhere, and then use you as a punching bag to vent the pressure and resentment brought back from the outside.
2. A guilty conscience will lead to lying as a habit
If you fall in love with another man during your marriage and relationship, you must not behave openly in such an unflattering matter. A woman who is wronged will keep telling lies to cover herself up.
When she becomes a habit and the habit becomes natural, she discovers that you are so easy to fool, and you become a doll that can be manipulated at will in her eyes. At this time, you are still in her eyes. Do you have status?
3. Mental cheating is easily forgiven by society
The whole society has a negative attitude toward cheating. Everything is done with a negative attitude. If your spouse is confirmed to be having an affair with a third party, her image in social relationships will plummet and she will be criticized verbally and in writing. In serious cases, it may even cause damage to her career.The price is quite heavy.
And if she only falls in love with a third party mentally without any substantive contact, you have to ask your relatives and friends for help and accuse her of cheating. It will be difficult to produce effective evidence. In the end, everyone just gave her some advice, picked it up gently, and put it down gently.
Forgiveness from the social circle and the outside world is a disguised form of encouragement for women to jump left and right within a certain limit. She can love others while forming a "model family" with you that everyone praises. Among them, Only you know the pain.
4. Mental infidelity means true love
Most women who are just for sex are holding It’s just for fun. The object of cheating is generally dispensable to a woman. She will not do anything excessive to deliberately please the other person.
But once she falls in love, your status in her heart will definitely plummet.
When she develops feelings for someone else, you become more and more redundant. In order to take care of the feelings of the third party, she can sacrifice the interests of the family and your interests.
In short, if a man feels that as long as a woman takes control of her body, he will let it go. If things go on for a long time, you may end up with a discreet infidelity that is hard to swallow and more terrifying than physical infidelity, waiting for you. There is only pain.
This kind of pain is very costly to you personally and to a family.
