Girls are emotional and pay great attention to details, so when smart boys are chasing girls, they often know how to make girls feel good through some small details. So what are the little details that can make a girl feel more favorable?
1. Give her a nickname that no one else has ever called her;
2. "I've been ", at the right time, say these four words, the effect will be explosive;
3. Mention "we" many times. For example:
"We are both grown up, and we are still playing this. You must not tell anyone about it, it will be embarrassing";
4. Understand some of her special behaviors. For example:
"I think it's good for you to do this. It's reasonable and reasonable. Others don't understand because they have short-sightedness/Mother's heart";
5. Deep reverse prediction.
If she is a cheerful person on the outside, then you bet that she is fragile on the inside;
If she is a slow and introverted person, then you bet on her being actually passionate on the inside;
If she is a quiet girl, then you bet that she is actually a person who does not like stability.
Boldly make a reverse bet based on her dominant personality in front of others. You are 100% sure. No matter whether you guessed it right or not, she will definitely feel that you understand her better than others.
6. Contrast highlights her uniqueness.
Girls never want to be second to anyone. They always hope that they are the most special one among the crowd. It has nothing to do with vanity, it is just natural.
For example, a more normal one:
"I have seen others wear the same style of shoes as yours, but they are not as good-looking as yours."
A more ambiguous one: < /p>
"Let me tell you something, I have never told anyone else before"
A bit more flirty:
"I dreamed of you lying on my bed last night I fell asleep in my bed and I didn’t wake you up.
That’s amazing, because in reality I wouldn’t let anyone lie in my bed.”
7. Describe your own view of love and indirectly show that falling in love with yourself is a wonderful thing. For example:
"I think a good relationship is about making both people better versions of themselves, just like two people sitting opposite each other on the balcony drinking coffee at noon on a sunny day without saying a word. I feel very good.”
8. Show vulnerability and let the other person complete the transition and bring her in, making her feel that she lacks a boyfriend.
"Although I laugh and joke with my colleagues all day long, we are just casual acquaintances. Many times there are things that no one can say. When you hold it back to a certain extent, you will feel a little sad. I don't know if you are like this. Huh?"
After knowing the above details, you can ensure the normal progress of online relationships, but for boys, the bigger challenge is dating.
Many boys will encounter a situation where the girl’s reaction becomes very cold when they come back from a date, even though they usually chat well online.
9. Be able to respect girls’ opinions and have their own opinions.
After briefly asking the girls for their opinions, they quickly finalized the plan, such as what movies to watch and what to eat together, and where to go after dinner.
10. When you first meet, you can lead her to a comfortable environment quickly.
For example, if you make an appointment to meet at Wanda’s door in winter, you will have to walk in the next second to let her feel the increase in body temperature.
11. Take her to an unfamiliar environment and experience exciting projects.
People will always attribute the impact of the environment on themselves to the people around them.
When you are in a stranger, you will feel that time passes very slowly, and it is easier to have a heartbeat. The heartbeat caused by the stimulation project feels like the feeling of falling in love.
12. When a girl makes a mistake, give her the best lenience.
The best way to forgive her is not to forgive her immediately, but to give her a smile first, then a slap, and then a hug.
For example, if she accidentally soiled your clothes, first we should give her a smiley face, "It's okay, who told you to look good?", and then give her a slap, "But you really did it this time." You are hurting me." He gave her another hug and said, "Fortunately, you are good-looking enough."
13. The inside of the road is always reserved for her. It is the most basic courtesy to hold every door and block every car door frame.
14. If you pass an intersection without traffic lights, please keep your body between her and the direction of the traffic.
In fact, when you walk to the middle, you should naturally switch to the other side of her.
15. If it is at night and a car with high-beam lights is driving on the opposite side, you can use your hands to help her make up her mind. Cover your eyes.
Whether it can actually block the light is another matter, as long as the movements are in place.
16. In the first face-to-face communication, avoid embarrassment and listen more than you talk.
It is better to talk about parent snacks than to talk about world events. If the topic is more smoky, it will be in line with girls’ conversation habits.
If she is interested in this topic, her eyes will wander, or her face will turn away unconsciously. This is to remind the boy to end the current topic quickly.
17. Frequently call her by her name, or the nickname you gave her before, instead of using "Hey" instead.
18. Not pursuing dateslength of time and send her home when the atmosphere reaches its climax.
Don’t think about finally making an appointment, and you don’t know if there will be a next time. You must play for a whole day. If a girl finds out that you have the intention to delay the time, all your efforts will be wasted.
19. Carry a rubber band with you and hand it to a girl when she is eating.
If she asks you if you are an experienced driver and why you thought of wearing this, you should say that you have been influenced by it since you were a child. Your father has always had the habit of wearing rubber bands for your mother.
20. Pay the bill in advance and pretend to skip the bill at the end. Don’t forget to stop after running a few dozen meters to give her time to react.
