In fact, it’s not that many boys don’t want to fall in love, but the dual psychological and external pressures make boys dare not fall in love, chase girls, or even be friends with the girls they like. Today, let’s talk about boys’ single thoughts. Why are more and more boys unwilling to fall in love? What keeps them single?
Why more and more boys are unwilling to fall in love
The first point is that I feel poor
My salary is enough for me to spend a month. I can still save a small sum for sales, but if I want to fall in love, I will not be very wealthy. Rather than going on dates, eating and other unnecessary expenses after falling in love, I am more willing to save money, and I will have more and more money. The more you have, the more sense of accomplishment and security you will have. Therefore, I don’t want to let love disrupt my life.
They are not saying that girls must spend a lot of money after falling in love, but after weighing their income and property, they find that they do not have the confidence to fall in love. Even if they fall in love, they cannot let girls live a happy life. In good times, compared to being single, your happiness may decline, and you may simply stop falling in love.
The second point is that the concept of marriage and love is relatively traditional
Some boys think that as long as they are in love, they must get married. , if you don’t get married, there is no need to fall in love. I believe there are many brothers in front of the screen. We all have this idea. When you fall in love, you are rushing to get married. As long as you fall in love, a series of problems such as houses, cars, betrothal gifts, and children will follow. Think of your current abilities. If it's not enough, the pressure will fill up in an instant, and naturally you will give up the idea of ??falling in love.
This is also the reason why boys are more ambitious. The growth period for boys is very long, and the period when girls are most beautiful is exactly the period when boys need to grow up. Unless a girl is willing Invest in you and bet that you can give her a good life in the future, otherwise this type of boy will most likely start a career first and then start a family. After all, I have been poor all my life, how can I dare to enter the prosperity, how can I feel the beauty with the breeze on my sleeves.
The third point is, there is someone you can’t let go of in your heart
This person may be your first love, or it may be the girl you have had a crush on for a long time. It is undeniable that she will always be your The reason why Bai Yueguang in your heart can't let go of someone is because in addition to love, there are also persistence and memories in the heart. If you can't let go of the people in the past, your heart will never be able to integrate into a new person, and there is a high probability that there will be no one. The method is to look forward to future love, and gradually have less contact with the opposite sex and no longer have feelings.
Indeed, in life, there will always be more or less regrets, and there will also be one or two that are difficult to live through in life. People who forget, but keep tying themselves to the past, will make themselves sink deeper and deeper, letting the pastExperience that brings a little positive impact to yourself is the best change. If you really can’t get out quickly, let me teach you a way to force yourself to get out quickly:
The essence of love is to create emotional resonance through frequent communication. This resonance Well, it will increase based on the frequency of getting along. So when you have a girl you like, just force yourself to make a decision according to your nature. Give yourself three seconds. If you want to chat with her, go find her. If you want to ask her out, go out and ask her out. Just ask her out and take action within three seconds. No matter whether it succeeds or not, it will greatly dilute your single mentality, including the person you can't let go of. If you still like her, continue to confess to her. After being rejected, continue to confess that you still like her. , which is definitely much faster than if you shed tears alone and get drunk alone.
