Love is a matter between two people. There are many things that you are not aware of before falling in love. Only after falling in love will you slowly understand. So what are some things that you will know after falling in love?
1. When a girl rejects you, there is actually only one reason: "I don't like you"
First of all, let's think about a scenario. You want to buy some game peripherals. After entering the store, the clerk greets you enthusiastically:
"Hello, handsome man, do you like this one? I can see that you are a very tasteful person, and this one will definitely suit your preferences."
You were attracted by her The rainbow fart made me a little nervous, but I quickly calmed down and thought about it: I don’t like it at first glance, it fits the bill!
Just talk to her directly. You can’t say anything, so you can only be polite and tactful. Rejection: Hahaha, definitely next time.
Therefore, if you use your brain, you can come up with many reasons for rejecting people, but the real answer in your heart is only one: I don’t like it.
The same goes for the conversion scene. If a girl rejects you, don’t ask her why. If you don’t like it, you just don’t like it.
Brothers, don’t give a hundred thousand reasons to the girl you love but don’t love her. The last thing you have to do is to preserve your dignity for yourself.
But having said that, does it mean that you are really bad if she rejects you? Not necessarily!
Just like that game peripheral that you rejected, in your opinion It's not popular, but it never sells. There are always people other than you who care about it and buy it back like a treasure to keep at home.
So it is the same when we are rejected by a girl, not because we are not good, but because you and her are not from the same world at all.
2. You can’t understand a girl without failing several times
Then how do you know if she is the one? What about people in the world?
There is only one way, you have to try, you won’t know if you don’t try.
It’s like buying clothes. The clothes look cool when they are hung there, but they may not be the same when you wear them. There are only two reasons: either the clothes are garbage, or they are you. Need to do a little bit of body management.
The same is true when you face a girl you like. After chatting for a while, you find that she has ignored you or even blocked you.
Either she has a problem, or you have to look at yourself to see if you are speaking too directly, or if your sense of need is too exposed. Anyway, there is always some reason, just reflect on it and correct it.
A sharp sword needs to be tempered over and over again. As for you, you will be blacklisted a few times and you will be fine.
There is no shortage of talented people on the single stage, but God will always choose those low-key players who work hard and are sincere. Talented players often end up alone on the stage.The one who applauded.
Look, you’ve heard the story of the tortoise and the hare for so many years, and you’ve just realized it now, right?
I know some of you guys are asking, what’s the point of becoming a person? How do you work hard before choosing the person you want to know? Come on, first focus on hard work and listen to me while doing so.
3. The kings in the eyes of girls are the kind of people who focus on themselves first
< p> Many people say that when pursuing a girl, you need to improve yourself and enhance your own value at the same time instead of just kneeling and licking her. Let me analyze this useful nonsense for you.When you have some spare money, you can use it to give her gifts. Don’t worry at this time.
A truly good girl wants to find a girl who is serious about her close friends. She doesn’t care about these small gifts, because anyone can afford them, and she can afford them herself.
You might as well use this spare money to buy yourself two more books and start playing an instrument that you have wanted to learn for a long time.
Or the simplest way is to buy yourself two handsome clothes, or buy some fitness equipment to develop two more abdominal muscles.
As long as you have some sparkle, girls will choose you first, instead of those who are holding gifts and waiting for girls to throw themselves into their arms.
Of course, even if she still rejects you, just smile and say thank you to her, thanking her for making you a better version of yourself.
4. The more you want a girl, the less likely you are to get it
Of course, I’m not saying that I Everything you said is useful. You see, not all of the top students in your class were admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University.
On the contrary, many people have fallen into the pit of Murphy's Law. The more they want something, the less they can get it. Those who perform exceptionally are those who have the mentality of taking whatever they take.
In fact, if you relax your mind, you will get unexpected results. The same is true when we chat with girls. If we think too much, it will affect our performance.
Therefore, many boys give girls the impression that they look like a king for a while, like a bronze for a while, and then they ignore you. After reviewing it for a long time, you can only think: I am ugly because I have no money. Ah!
But in fact, there is an old saying: the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. The correct way to build goodwill is to continuously add from less to more, rather than from more to less. If you don't master quantitative changes, you will never achieve qualitative changes.
