If a man and a woman have entered the ambiguous stage, and both are well aware of each other's feelings, how close is it to a confirmed relationship? There is only one layer of window paper left that has not been punctured. So what is the reason why the ambiguous girl suddenly becomes cold at this time? Most likely just for fun and see what tricks each other has up their sleeves. Is there any chance that the ambiguous girl suddenly becomes cold? Let me analyze them one by one below:
1. Girls have better choices than you
It means that each other develops in the ambiguous stage, but when girls get to know you, they get to know other people at the same time. . At this time, let’s see which relationship is more comfortable, which person is better, etc. At this time, the ambiguous girl suddenly becomes cold, which is equivalent to telling you that you have been passed.
In fact, it’s not that you are not good enough, girls actually have feelings for you, it just depends on which relationship makes the girl feel more comfortable and likes her more. If I like you 80% and like that relationship 90%, I will naturally end the relationship with you. If you should continue to be disturbed, a serious girl might even apologize to you and say that she won't contact you anymore - because she doesn't want to be in two different situations. Therefore, some people will delete their friends after falling in love, not to mention that the ambiguous girl suddenly becomes cold. This is a trivial matter.
2. Ambiguous differences in mutual understanding
This point appears in the difference in "love cognition". Boys and girls have their own understanding of feelings. And what you understand as "ambiguity" may not be the same in the eyes of girls, so you feel that the ambiguous girl is cold towards you. It is possible that the girl feels that she is just a friend and there is no need to continue the relationship. You think going shopping, playing together, etc. are very ambiguous, but in the eyes of girls, this is what ordinary friends do.
In fact, girls don’t like you very much. It also has something to do with your personality. It’s the same with you and others. Once you make her feel that she has no feelings, she will naturally not go deeper into the relationship. We always think wishfully that we are comfortable in relationships, but in fact we are often deeply involved in them without even realizing it.
3. The ambiguous period has passed the emotional stage
Even if both men and women like each other very much, The two people have also entered a period of ambiguity. But because of the limited understanding of each other's feelings, they are afraid of losing and dare not step forward. The fleeting sensibility slowly fades away and turns into rational thinking. Girls will also be confused:
——Do I like him or not?
——She is neither excellent nor ordinary, what should I do?
Gradually, ambiguous girls will become more and more entangled and waver repeatedly. In this way, girls will lose interest in you. When the relationship changes from "feeling" to rational weighing of pros and cons, the relationship will lose its sweetness. The ambiguity will naturally subside, and it is natural for an ambiguous girl to suddenly become cold.
4. Do things that make girls uncomfortable
During the ambiguous period, if your behavior or words make girls uncomfortable or disgusted, You always do the wrong things and say the wrong things, which makes girls feel very uncomfortable. Their attraction gradually fades away, and girls even begin to dislike you, so they will naturally become indifferent to you.
Many boys tend to have low emotional intelligence and are not interested in you. You know what girls think. Either they don't say anything or they make you feel uncomfortable. Even if an ambiguous girl likes you at first and wants to have a serious relationship, she will naturally break up if she feels uncomfortable with you later. /div>
