I don’t know if you have noticed a problem. Boys with little love experience will have two common problems. If you don’t know it yet, don’t miss it. Without further ado, let’s take a look. Of course, if you also have it If you have any of these problems, remember to take the time to correct them.
First, you can’t confess casually. It’s not that confession is bad. You have to look at the right time.
Let’s think about what kind of behavior you behave when you confess your love? That is, when you have not chased her, you are eager to get the result and answer you want from the other party. , under what circumstances would you do this?
It must be when you are not sure and don’t know what the other person thinks, then you will do this and force her to give you a result. Give you an answer.
If you are sure, right? If you know that the other person is interested in you, you will directly hold hands and go on a date, and they will be together in a tacit understanding. You don't need to understand that she wants answers and results.
Then you are not sure, and you don’t know what the other person is thinking. If you still express your feelings, it is not the same as throwing an egg against a rock. Failure is inevitable. And in a certain aspect, confessing is equivalent to forcing the other party and putting pressure on the other party.
For example, if you chat with a girl and contact her frequently, in fact, as long as the girl is not a fool at this time, she knows what you mean, and there must be boys around her who have chased her, right? Right?
She knows whether you are interested in her or not. She just wants to know you and understand you better. You can omit these time gatherings, suddenly confess your love, and put some things that everyone knows and things that are secretly out in the open for her.
Then you are equivalent to forcing her into a corner and giving me an answer. There are only two choices, one is to be with me, and the other is to reject me.
You are putting pressure on her, and you are also seeking death yourself. This kind of behavior is like this, and it’s actually not the goddess’ fault. So you must remember that in the best case, there is no need to confess your feelings, and you can only testify after being together.
Second, please cannot be done.
Many people will try to please when they are chasing girls. Why should we please? This actually has to do with the thinking of us men. We can see some business leaders and some Most of the important leaders are men.
I’m not advocating male supremacy, but in many cases, whether it’s physical fitness or logical thinking, men’s overall strength must be more suitable for doing business and handling things.
Because our thinking is very logical, we also choose pros and cons when talking and doing things, pay attention to gains and losses, and we are good at solving problems, so many of our boys are like thislook.
The most important thing is that we bring this innate male thinking into love and solve problems with mechanical choice. This kind of behavior is actually what we hope to solve through my behavior of being nice to a person. You don't have feelings for me. Girls really don't like this feeling at all, and it also puts pressure on her.
The pressure is because to this girl, we are more like talking about business than love. During the business negotiation, the other party gave us a very good treatment and conditions, which far exceeded what we needed.
If you still don’t accept the other person’s feelings, then you have to give the other person no face and don’t know how to feel flattered, which will lead to us hearing some boys shouting, why am I so good to you? If you are not with me yet, you are a woman who is so cold-blooded, worships money, and is real material, acupuncture, real green tea, etc. Others may feel that this man is very pitiful and this woman is very bad. But I don’t think this boy deserves pity. Girls didn’t ask you to do these things. You did it yourself and failed to achieve your goals. You felt that you were at a loss, and then you blamed the girl, right? Who do you blame?</ p>
So when we don’t have a formal confrontation with each other, we just need to do some good things that are limited to friends.
After reading the two points summarized above, how many of your friends have been shot? Leave a message and tell me.
