Girls are more or less vain, which is understandable, but if a girl is too vain and pursues vanity without considering her own situation, then boys may need to be careful, because you You never know what she will do in pursuit of vanity. Below I will share with you the small details of girls’ vanity. Girls who are too vain should stay away.
1. Pseudo-exquisiteness
Some vain girls are unwilling to face the reality. They insist on emphasizing their high-end life when things are obviously very ordinary. This is commonly known as pseudo-exquisiteness.
In the human world: I once met a woman at work, a typical pseudo-refined woman.
To give an example, someone helped bring breakfast and she wanted to buy a pizza. A pizza was so expensive, dozens of dollars, that most people couldn’t afford it. But when someone else bought the pizza, she couldn’t afford it, so she said she wanted to buy it. It's too expensive, just buy the one that costs three to five yuan. Others wonder, can you buy a slice of pizza for three to five yuan? She said it was pizza sold at a roadside stall. Others suddenly realized that it was not pancakes. She retorted unhappily that it was not pancakes but pizza. Others were confused, what kind of pizza was that?
She bought pancakes herself, and others were confused and asked, "Isn't this just pancakes?" She emphasized that this was pizza, not pancakes. How could you eat something as earthy as pancakes? Others gradually understood that pancakes were originally called pizza, and their taste suddenly became much higher, and their lives became more refined.
2. Like to compare with others
When we do things and buy things, we generally judge ourselves If you really need it, you will buy it, but a vain girl wants to have what others have.
It’s Kesya: My college roommate, she told me when we first met her that she has been like this since she was a child. As long as she sees something she likes and someone else has one, she will buy it immediately. Ten. Otherwise you won't be happy. She is not just comparing herself to me, but whenever she sees someone else having something good, she wants it too. For example:
1. When I first went to college, I was new to makeup, so I bought a certain Shulin lip glaze for myself as an adult gift. The next day, roommate A asked her boyfriend to buy her more than 30 popular lipsticks from major brands, and let her roommates try out the colors at will. We still don’t know if she has run out of lipstick.
2. I can’t live in the dormitory due to poor health in my sophomore year.
In a few days, roommate A stopped living and moved downstairs from me.
In the same apartment building, she said that the room I lived in was too small, and told the agent to find a room that was larger than mine and better decorated than mine. The last one is on the 27th floor and the other one is on the 8th floor.
We visit each other every day to play together, buy groceries and have dinner together.
3. The old aunt gave me a donkey brand bag. She said it was the first famous brand bag she bought. She is older than me, but now she has no chance to carry a backpack. She likes this bag very much, so Want me to continue using itgo.
A week later: Roommate A’s new large size Neverfull arrived.
4. I wanted to buy a car after getting my driver’s license, but after all considerations, I didn’t buy it.
Roommate A: She got her driver’s license right away, asked her mother to give her the money to buy a car, and then took a few classmates from our dormitory out to play.
I always thought that her family was very rich, and she liked to rush to pay for the food and treat guests. Whatever she wants, her parents will send her money with just a phone call, and she can satisfy her with anything. Until I went to her house to hang out before graduation... The high-end circle shown in the circle of friends was seriously inconsistent with the actual situation of her family!
Only then did she realize how much money her parents had spent during these four years of college. And the money was earned from how much grain her parents sold. At the same time, I also know that she borrowed many campus loans in order to create a so-called circle of friends (never! Never study!), and then asked her parents to pay them back. They have worked hard these past four years to save money and save money for roommate A to go to school.
It’s understandable if the girl you like is a little vain and wants you to buy some small gifts or send you some 520 red envelopes on birthdays or Valentine’s Day, but she will always want to buy a new mobile phone or go shopping in the mall. New model, then you have to be careful and see if she is a very vain girl.
