Many people don’t care whether they are a strong woman and a weak man or a strong man and a weak woman, as long as they feel comfortable getting along with each other. But observing the couples around us, compared to the relationship between a strong man and a weak woman, the relationship between a strong woman and a weak man does go a long way. Do you know why?
Why the relationship between a strong woman and a weak man cannot go far
In the "Book of Changes", it is believed that the combination of heaven and earth is the best combination. The so-called Qian Gua, the pronoun is masculine, refers to the party that leads the relationship, is responsible for charging into the battle, getting external resources, and is responsible for his subordinates. The so-called Qian Gua, the pronoun is feminine, refers to the following party in the relationship, responsible for assisting and helping. , planning and coordinating family resources will bring benefits again, obey the leader's coordination, and work will not be tiring. If the coordination is good, the effect of one plus one is greater than two.
Returning to love relationships, generally speaking, men follow the Qian hexagram and women follow the Kun hexagram. This is more in line with the laws of nature. Do you think it’s okay for women to follow the Qian hexagram and for men to follow the Kun hexagram? It's not impossible, but it's difficult. The difficulty is that it goes against nature.
If women are strong and men are weak, you can imagine a scene where women charge in front and men cheer from behind. , this picture is somewhat strange. The strange thing is that women are masculine and men are feminine, which is inconsistent with our inherent nature.
Why do many relationships between strong women and weak men fail to last? Because women appear to be strong on the surface, but deep down they want to be loved; men appear weak on the surface, but deep down they want to be the masters of the family. The relationship pattern is completely contrary to their subconscious demands.
Such a distorted relationship will eventually lead to a woman who is in charge of the family, but feels tired and thinks my man is so useless; a man, although obedient and obedient, feels unable to exert his influence and thinks I am a man. How come you live such a useless life? How can such a mutually dissatisfied relationship last long?
Do you think there is a relationship where a strong woman and a weak man can live a lifetime and be very happy? Of course there is, but such a relationship requires that the woman is masculine at heart and the man is feminine at heart, and both parties must be clear about their positioning, do their part well and not cross the line, so that such a relationship can last.
But there are very few such people. If you are not such a person, the relationship between a strong woman and a weak man will make you very painful. Men should find a woman who is weaker than you and willing to obey you; women should find a man who is stronger than you and can lead you better.
At the same time, men should learn to be men, mobilize their masculine side, work hard, dare to take charge of the family, and bring a better life to their families; women should learn to be women, and learn how to behave when facing men. Be feminine, encourage and identify with the other person, handle internal affairs properly, and let the man work carefree outside
