When a boy learns that the girl he likes comes to visit his aunt, it is very easy for a boy to get closer to him if he handles it properly. However, most boys don’t know what to do when a girl comes to visit his aunt. They only say "drink more hot drinks". Water", this opportunity was missed in vain. Today, the editor will tell you what should boys do to get closer when a girl is pregnant?
1. Auntie period Girls’ precautions
Girls are affected by hormones in their bodies and are prone to major mood swings during their menstrual period. It is possible that even the girls themselves are not aware of such mood swings. At this time, you should be more prepared to "fight" and break down the girl's psychological defenses.
1. Complaints and negative energy
“Why does my aunt hurt so much? What did I do wrong in my previous life to become a girl with dysmenorrhea? Why shouldn’t men come to my aunt balabala? .....”
Strategy:
Mistake Demonstration 1: Which girl doesn’t want to be an aunt, why are you so squeamish?
Mistake Demonstration 2: Dysmenorrhea is a disease, and I’m afraid you’ll be in pain, so why don’t I have a baby with you?
The girl endures the pain in her stomach and has no intention of listening to you. There is only one word for the correct strategy, which is "coax".
Treat her like a kitten to express your anxiety and distress.
2. Unreasonable troubles
Girls in the aunt stage do whatever they want, anytime, anywhere, without any reason or conditions. Because any girl in your circle of friends questioned you about a completely unrelated photo, or she might not be able to sleep at 1 o'clock in the night and suddenly wanted to drink red bean milk tea, or she might lose her temper with you without warning because of the littlest things.
Strategy:
Mistake Demonstration 1: Can you be reasonable? If you do it again, I will be really angry. .
Mistake Demonstration 2: Your aunt is in a bad mood now, so calm down first.
Girls have never been able to reason, especially girls in the aunt period. All they care about is your attitude. Tell the truth? Don't be stupid.
Effective communication means that you just listen to what the girl says. Her crotch will bleed for a week every month. What’s wrong with having sex with you? Wait until her aunt is gone... (manual smile).
3. Inexplicable indifference
The girl’s aunt is not just bleeding, she often suffers from symptoms such as stomachache, dizziness, body chills, etc.
Girls who are usually carefree and outgoing may suddenly become indifferent because of their aunt. I don’t talk, I don’t reply to WeChat messages, and no one except the courier guy and the takeaway guy pays attention to me. I just want a big quilt to lie down at home until the end of time.
Strategy:
Error Demonstration 1: What’s wrong with you? Why are you ignoring me? Why don’t you want to talk? Did I make you angry? Just tell me.
Error Demonstration 2: What’s wrong with you? Let me tell you a joke. Why don't you smile? I'll take you out to play. Get dressed and leave right away.
If a girl doesn’t want to communicate, please give up asking “Do you not love me anymore?” and don’t take her out to play or eat. A girl who is too lazy to talk doesn’t want to talk to her. Put on makeup and change clothes to go out.
Don’t talk, don’t make any sound, just stay with her silently and let her know you are there.
2. Relieve the physiological problems of girls during the aunt period
The pain stage that girls generally experience during the aunt period It is chest swelling and pain, waist soreness, lower abdominal pain, 24-hour non-stop pain and cold hands and feet. The degree of pain varies from person to person. If your girlfriend or the girl you like has dysmenorrhea, congratulations, she is really a broken-winged angel who cannot be messed with.
1. Talk less and do more
Misfortune comes from the mouth, not to mention that there is such a big bomb next to you in the aunt period. Although you may not be with her and can't cook a bowl of ginger syrup for her, you can definitely order a mutton soup or warm red date soy milk for her, and then say to her: "I can't take care of you without you." You, the mutton soup represents my condolences~" She can feel your attentiveness and intention through the phone.
Strategy:
Mistake Demonstration 1: Stomachache? Drink more hot water.
Mistake Demonstration 2: Is it that uncomfortable? Do you want to take some medicine?
Drink more hot water This sentence may be the last straw that breaks the relationship between you. Instead of drinking some hot water, why not make her a cup of steaming brown sugar water and put it next to her hand, and then put your big warm hand on her belly.
If she comes outside, take off your coat and tie it around her waist;
If she is in so much pain that she can’t walk, call a car for her. Car;
If she is cold, buy her a warm baby and stick it on her belly...
There are countless scenarios where you can take countless actions, but the central idea is just one: do something , use actions instead of words to prove that you care about her.
2. Material preparation
A girl’s aunty period is also the time when she is most easily moved by you. At this time, you must prepare sufficient materials.
Brown sugar. But a large cup of steaming brown sugar water can give girls more warmth and psychological satisfaction.
Although this warmth comes from the temperature of the water, in their hearts they will acquiesce that this warmth comes from you who thoughtfully handed over this cup of brown sugar water.
Aunt’s towel. Can you stop being a straight man? Do you have the courage to go to the drugstore to buy condoms, but don’t have the courage to go to the supermarket to buy a auntie towel for a girl?
But what needs to be asked clearly in advance is whether the brand she commonly uses is cotton or net. Noodles, and then a pack each for day and night use, it’s perfect to have them all.
Painkillers. If the pain is really unbearable, take medicine decisively.
Of course, girls are timid and will instinctively resist medicine. You need to patiently serve warm water and coax her to take it.
