The process of falling in love with a girl will inevitably go through a period of ambiguity, and ambiguity and liking are fundamentally different. So how to judge from a girl’s various behaviors whether she is ambiguous with you or really likes you? Woolen cloth?
1. Express your feelings
People who really like you will generally not express it easily or be too aggressive. Intimate physical contact, their feelings must be consistent with words and deeds.
Once it is determined that they like each other, they will express it clearly, and then there will be further contact.
Don’t tell me that you have dated me, drank wine, kissed me, held hands, and still haven’t admitted that you like me. Then what are you doing? Your hands are too free, why are you looking for something to do? ?
So you have to know that a girl who really likes you will not allow her feelings to be treated as a game.
But ambiguity is different. You can do whatever you should and shouldn’t do, but I didn’t explicitly say that I like you or be together. If you think so, you have misunderstood. I just You as a friend.
If you say you don’t like it, why do you still do things that couples only do, and you want to establish a relationship with someone, then I’m sorry, you may not be able to see this person starting tomorrow. This is the legendary lack of initiative, rejection, and irresponsibility. I welcome you warmly when you come, and I won’t hold you back when you leave.
2. Talk about the future
Whether a person likes you or not depends on whether she has thought about dating you You spend time together in the future. To put it simply, it means whether she will include you in her future plans.
A person who really likes you will want to be with you no matter what, including eating, shopping, or traveling.
In the future, she will know whether she will settle in your city or return to her hometown, where your job is better, whether she will compromise for you, etc. Think carefully.
Because love is not only a short-term romance, but also a long-term companionship!
But if it is ambiguous, it is different. Obviously its shelf life will be shorter, but who It makes you like passion, so don't ask for a bicycle.
A typical manifestation of this kind of person is to avoid talking about the future and talk about living in the present.
Or he talks too much and listens to you in everything he says. Maybe he has started flirting with other little brothers secretly.
So to judge whether a person just wants to be ambiguous with you or really wants to be with you, you might as well talk about their future plans.
3. Sense of dependence
What is ambiguity? Isn’t it just a kind of vagueness?What a clear attitude.
To put it simply, even if this person is very good when they are with you, you still feel unsteady and always have a sense of insecurity, as if you may lose them at any time.
If a person just wants to have an affair with you, it is impossible for him to really bet on you alone. He can continue to talk sweetly to other boys after he separates from you and turns around.
So the real source of your sense of insecurity is actually that she doesn’t rely on you enough.
But if a girl really likes you, even if she doesn’t want to, she will inevitably start to feel dependent on you.
Even if it’s a meal or a trip to the supermarket, there are many little things in life that I can’t help but share with you.
