Generally speaking, blind dates are introduced by relatives and friends, and both parties are inextricably linked. If you develop well with the blind date, it will be okay. If you feel that you are not suitable for the blind date and want to end the relationship, What should you say? When rejecting someone, we generally recommend not to say it in person to avoid embarrassment. The editor below will share with you how to reject a blind date on WeChat so that both parties will not feel embarrassed?
1. The situation of not meeting each other
If you haven’t met yet You have met, you just added each other on WeChat through the introduction of relatives and friends, and then after chatting for a period of time, you find that the other person is not the person you want to fall in love with. How can WeChat reject the blind date in this situation?
In fact, this is the case. It's easy to handle. If you just use a cold approach, the other party will understand your intention. For example, if she sends you a message for a long time before replying "Sorry, I didn't see it before", or just not replying at all, the other party will understand what you mean. If the other party has not yet understood your refusal and continues to pester you, it is recommended that you directly communicate with the introducer and let the introducer talk about it, which is better than rejecting it directly.
2. Finding inappropriateness when meeting
Sometimes the two parties feel that they are not suitable for each other when communicating on WeChat. We got along very well, so we got to the point where we met. But after meeting him, he discovered that that was not the case. The other person was not the person he really wanted to find. Since the two parties are not very familiar with each other at this time, and the relationship has not yet been established, how can you reject the blind date on WeChat when you find that the meeting is inappropriate?
One way is to start to treat the other party lukewarmly. If the other party was a girl, I would definitely have given up on it.
One way is to tell the other party that we have a good conversation and are suitable to be friends. It would be good to be friends even if we can’t be lovers in the future.
3. Suggestion method
Some boys feel that they are all blind dates introduced by acquaintances, which makes them unhappy. It’s not very good, so I want to use a more tactful way to refuse. Here is a suggestion method to use WeChat to refuse a blind date, such as:
“Do you have any high-quality single girls resources that you can introduce to me? Do you want to be your girlfriend?” (Of course, this is not really about asking a girl on a blind date to introduce you to a partner, I just want her to hear the implication clearly)
“You are so good, any boy who can pursue you in the future will be lucky. "It's a pity that I am not so lucky and can only be friends with you." (He obviously praised her for her excellence, but actually rejected the possibility of your relationship)
"If your boyfriend bullies you in the future. Now, remember to vent your anger to me as a friend." (Relationship is positioned as a friend)
"How to reject a blind date on WeChat" boils down to one point: try not to say rejection words, so that the other party can understand your voice-over. If the other party understands, then the two of you will Personal relationships are naturally alienated, and there is no such thing as rejection or refusal. If the other party does not understand, then use foreign aid or cold treatment to deal with it.
