When you first meet a girl, because you don’t know each other very well, the conversation can easily fall into a cold or awkward situation, which is not conducive to your future relationship with the girl. Let me share with you how to chat and pursue a girl you just met? 3 steps to teach you how to catch it!
1. How to start a chat with a girl you just met
When chatting with a girl you just met, you need to leave a good "first impression" on the girl. This is called the "primacy effect" in psychology, and it often determines whether you like you or not at the first sight.
"Primacy effect": refers to the impact of the first impression formed by both parties on future relationships, that is, the effect of "preconceptions". Although these first impressions are not always correct, they are the most vivid and solid, and determine the course of future interactions between the two parties. After adding WeChat to a girl you just met, do this specifically: slight praise at the beginning + sincere expression + exchange of names
Formula: capture details + slight praise + express friendliness
Give an example Example:
Male: The mole on the tip of the nose is very beautiful, and it makes the whole person very elegant.
Female: Hahaha, thank you
PS: Praise at the beginning of the compliment. That's fine, don't continue to praise me, otherwise you will become a "dog licker", just express your friendliness.
Let’s exchange names to increase our goodwill:
Male: My name is XXX, what’s yours?
Female: XXX
Male: It sounds good, I will keep it in my heart
These words can be copied and used directly, and the effect will definitely be good. Leave a good impression on the girl, and it will be very easy for you to chat and expand the topic later, paving the way for further promotion of the relationship.
2. Side view of chatting with a girl you just met
Do you want to make a girl like you quickly? , you can use the side display method to quickly generate curiosity and goodwill. Specifically, do this: first talk half of the sentence to focus the girl's attention, and then you express the attractive part to arouse good feelings.
Formula: half of the story + display value
Example:
Man: I am different from you (half of the story to arouse curiosity)
Female: Ah, what do you usually like to do?
Male: Work out and cook if you have nothing to do
Female: Wow, you love fitness and you can also cook. Yeah~
The appeal is immediately overwhelming, but don’t deliberately show off here. When you mistake profile for showing off, it increases the dislike for you.
PS: Let’s tell the girls half of what they want to say first, and gradually increase their curiosity. It's like "still holding the pipa and half covering your face", and I am getting more and more curious.
3. Chat and exchange information with a girl you just met
When you show yourself to a girl and the girl becomes interested in you, slowly open up the conversation That’s OK.
You can casually talk about your own situation, and then ask about the girl’s situation - the purpose of this is to let each other have a better understanding of the girl. Have a general understanding of her outlook, character, personality, hobbies, etc. If you feel that these do not meet the standards, then there is no point in continuing to make friends and promote a relationship.
You will never want to find someone. People with bad views, right?
In this way, you can exchange basic information with each other and talk about hobbies, daily life, pets, and food to increase trust.
Specifically. Do: Talk about yourself + talk about girls
For example:
Male: I usually like to play ball, how about you
Female: I like shopping haha
Male: Not bad, I also go shopping sometimes
Female: There is no purpose in wandering around
After you have exchanged information four or five times, you can go to test and capture "Signs" that a girl likes you
Finally, it is not difficult at all to chat with a girl you just met, regardless of whether you are chasing her. A goddess is still an ordinary girl. Regardless of whether you are making friends or dating, just treat her as an ordinary friend first. The more you put her in the position of "goddess", the subconsciously you will feel that you are inferior to girls, and you will not be confident. , surround the girl every day, and worry about gains and losses due to her emotions.
