It rarely happens that two people are in love with each other. Most of the time it is the situation of "what I like but doesn't like me". Therefore, we must learn to guide so that girls who don’t like us can like us. Next, the editor will talk to you about the two key points of chasing a girl who doesn't like you. If you want to win the beauty, then read on.
1. You must accept yourself and let go of control
When you meet someone you like When they are girls, most boys follow the cycle pattern of "desiring love - to please - to be hurt - to continue to please". However, because the other person does not like them, this also leads to this type of boys losing themselves step by step and becoming the person next to this girl. Licking dog and spare tire with extremely weak sense of existence.
In fact, the psychology of this type of boys is also because they want to control the relationship, want to make this girl like him, and be moved by these behaviors, so that she can like him. But there are countless examples that show that "licking a dog will result in nothing in the end." There may be a few successful cases, but the result is that when the girl meets someone who is better at licking, she will leave the previous man without looking back. .
And if we have always had such a constraint and feel that the girl we like is unhappy and in a bad mood, it is all our fault, go Denying oneself can even lead to a sense of destruction, even apologizing to girls and begging for their forgiveness. Then we will always be at a disadvantage in this relationship and lose the initiative in this relationship. In the eyes of girls, compromise and catering are also regarded as means to pursue her. They are low-value behaviors and it is difficult for her to like them. Own.
Therefore, if you want to pursue a girl who doesn’t like you, you must clearly realize that no matter what the relationship is, we cannot control it. Even if we can control it, we are the one who is being pleased by others. People, not people-pleasers.
You can’t live for one person. If you have such a person, then you can please her without limit and kneel and lick her. I wish you success as soon as possible. If you don’t have such a person, you You have to live for the evaluation of others, and you will be the one who dies from exhaustion in the end!
2. Learn to say "no" and establish Boundary awareness
There are many boys who basically respond to the requests of the girls they like. Even if it is something they are extremely unwilling to do or something that is very troublesome to them, they will do it. It is difficult to choose to refuse because they are afraid that once they refuse, the relationship with others will break down, and they are worried that the other person will feel that they are useless and worthless.
If, in order to make a girl who doesn’t like you fall in love with you, everything you do is to please her,If she doesn't do anything for herself, she won't do anything for you.
Everyone has the right to refuse others. You have to learn to say "no". You must be a person with independent life, thoughts and emotions. Only your own feelings are the most important. Don't cross the line, don't disturb others, and you must protect yourself.
What you need to understand is that it is not because you "sacrifice" that you are worthy of being loved, and it is not because you take good care of her that she will fall in love with you.
