Fighting is inevitable between lovers, but some girlfriends like to use a cold war to solve problems. This behavior often makes boyfriends feel confused and helpless. So, why do girlfriends love the cold war? It will be analyzed from several aspects below.
1. Poor communication
Communication is an important part of maintaining a relationship. If both parties have communication problems, it is easy for the girlfriend to choose a cold war after a quarrel. It may be that the girlfriend feels that she cannot express herself clearly, or that the boyfriend does not have the patience to listen, which leads her to choose the passive method of cold war to express her dissatisfaction.
2. Protect self-esteem
Some girls will touch their sensitive points when quarreling, for example The other person's words hurt their self-esteem. In order to protect their dignity, they will choose a cold war in response. In this way, they can avoid being hurt again and give their boyfriends a warning about what they should not say easily.
3. Wanting to attract your boyfriend’s attention
Sometimes girlfriends choose a cold war because they want their boyfriends to pay more attention to them. After a fight, if their boyfriend takes the initiative to comfort them, they will feel valued and loved. Although this method is not very mature, it is a way to test whether your boyfriend really cares about you.
4. Fear of losing each other
Some girls choose a cold war because they are afraid of losing each other. After a quarrel, they may think of breaking up or the other party leaving them, so they choose a cold war to express their anxieties and worries. In this way, they hope to make their boyfriends understand their importance through the cold war and ensure that the relationship between them will not break down easily.
5. Unwilling to face problems
Some girls choose the cold war because they are unwilling to face problems. After a fight, they may feel that resolving the issue will take a lot of effort and time and may hurt each other's feelings. Therefore, they chose the cold war as an escape method, hoping that the problem would be solved by itself.
There are many reasons why girlfriends love cold war. Whether it is poor communication, protecting self-esteem, wanting to attract your boyfriend's attention, fear of losing each other, or unwillingness to face problems, boyfriends need to treat it with understanding and patience. After the quarrel, both parties should sit down and communicate well to find a way to solve the problem, so as to avoid the continuation of the cold war and the breakdown of the relationship.
