Men who are in serious love hope that they can find a woman suitable for marriage, and then the two of them can go to the end together. But the reality is often unsatisfactory. Many men find out after they get married that the woman they chose is not suitable for marriage, and by then it is too late to regret it. In order to prevent everyone from taking detours, let’s share with men the characteristics of women that are not suitable for marriage to see if you and her are suitable for marriage.
1. Deceiving you
No man wants to marry a woman who deceives him. Of course, if this woman is clever enough and can deceive you for a lifetime, then that’s another story. Therefore, if a man discovers that a woman has cheated on you, don't forgive easily. Sometimes a person's bad nature is not so easy to change. He can cheat you once or a second time, and the trust between you will be destroyed this time. Destroyed by one deception, marriage will be unhappy.
2. Not being grateful
When I mentioned gratitude, I suddenly thought of the wife of the former boxing champion Zou Shiming. A video of Ran Yingying educating her son. In a parent-child program, the eldest son Xuan Xuan wasted food. Ran Yingying angrily scolded him: "What are you going to do, daddy?" Her son Xuan Xuan timidly replied: "Boxing." Ran Yingying continued to ask angrily: "What are you doing boxing for?" She replied sensibly: "Make money." Ran Yingying was still angry: "Then do you want to buy the cake you wasted with money! We can't waste it, because everything in this family was punched by my father!" To be honest, , this last sentence stunned me for a moment. It's not about how brilliant she is in educating her children, but her heartfelt gratitude and love for Zou Shiming.
Some women only know how to make men pay and buy in relationships. They accept it with peace of mind but never express it. Needless to say, such women are definitely not suitable for marriage.
3. Reluctance to share true inner feelings
Perhaps a woman is not willing to share her inner feelings when she is not familiar with you. It is normal to want to share your true feelings, but if a woman is already in love with you and your relationship is already very close, she is not willing to share it yet. People with this characteristic are very strict-mouthed and do not speak out what is on their mind. They may often feel that they "don't want to make the other party worry", "don't cause trouble to the other party", "can't show weakness and make the other party look down on themselves". Furthermore, they often speak hesitantly and want to He stops talking and sighs in the middle of the sentence: "Oh, forget it", which can make people anxious to death. As a partner, the other party has long inferred the emotions and problems of the person concerned through language, demeanor, movements, and expressions, but they cannot know what exactly is going on, so they will be anxious, angry, worried, and doubtful.
So, when a woman who is close enough to you to get married is unwilling to share her true inner feelings with you, you will live a very painful life and be anxious every day., angry, worried, and doubtful, do you think you are willing to live this kind of life for the rest of your life? Therefore, we say that those who are unwilling to share their true inner feelings are not suitable for marriage.
Of course, there are many characteristics of women that are not suitable for marriage, such as being unfaithful, unfilial, lazy and lazy... These all require men. Consider for yourself whether you can endure it after you get married if she behaves like this forever.