From a young age, people have instilled a concept in us: don’t care so much about your appearance, the inner content is the most important. The word connotation is too vague, which makes most people unable to start. In the end, they only achieve the goal of not paying attention to appearance. If you are ugly and don't care about your appearance, then it is certain that you will not find a girlfriend.
Why can’t you find a girlfriend if you are ugly?
1. If you are ugly, no girl is willing to get to know you
In real society, if you are ugly , if your appearance is not good enough, girls are not interested in knowing whether you have any inner qualities at all. If you have a good appearance, even if you have no connotation, there will be a lot of people willing to approach you and establish a relationship with you. "Don't care so much about your appearance, the inner content is the most important." This is the biggest poisonous chicken soup for Chinese men.
On the other hand, Chinese women’s chicken soup: “There are no ugly women, only lazy women” is so inspiring. Whether you are good-looking or not is not something you are born with, but is determined by your hard work. As long as you work hard, you can be very good-looking. nice. The point is that this sentence really conforms to social laws.
You will find that the handsome guys and beauties we see are all carefully dressed. When they take off their beauty suits, they are only a little more handsome than ordinary people. But many men use their ugliness as an excuse for their slovenliness.
2. How do ugly boys change?
I have personally experienced that from handsome to handsome The journey of handsomeness:
When you are ugly, no matter how much you talk about lotus flowers and are eloquent, girls just have nothing to respond to you. And as I started to study how to dress, style my hair, learn makeup, and take good-looking photos, girls' reactions to me completely changed. A small number of girls started to take the initiative to talk to me and want to get to know me. Even for the girls who don't take the initiative with me, their response won't be too bad when I do. So appearance is really important.
Many people are struggling to study the opening line and what to say to a girl in the first sentence. Being handsome is the best opening statement. As long as you have a good appearance, you can start with any expression. You will find that you can easily break the ice with a girl and make the other party willing to communicate with you. Only when the other party is willing to communicate with you can you attract her and have the opportunity to upgrade the relationship.
And the most important thing is that good looks can bring a premium. As soon as you know why some women ask for it, you will ask for it. Does a man have a car, a house, and savings? Because you are ugly, she has to find compensation from other places. Handsome guys are never asked for material things. There are even many women who are willing to provide material things and are willing to spend money for handsome people. This is the premium of being handsome.
In fact, the cost of making an ugly boy handsome is much lower than buying a house or a car. Take buying a car as an example, the most you can buy is tens of thousands of dollars.A Wuling, but spending tens of thousands to become handsome is enough for you to become half of Daniel Wu. The effects of the two are even more different. In the former, a woman will call you master, while in the latter, a woman will call you husband.