Many boys pursue relationships with girls because of the wrong method, so even if they pursue them for a long time, the relationship can only stay at the friend stage. So how do they develop from friends to love?
1. Create more opportunities to be together
To become a lover, you must create more opportunities to be together. Opportunities, so how to create opportunities to be together? In addition to friends' gatherings, we can also use computers to install light bulbs at home, and invite her to live with us when we need help. Of course, we can invite her to the movies and coffee.
2. Increase the sense of mystery
If you and she are very good friends, or even close buddies, you will be almost transparent to her about your situation. Knowing everything, you should appropriately increase your sense of mystery at this time. For example, you can reduce the frequency of text messages with her. In the past, you responded to her messages instantly, but now you can try to reply later or occasionally not answer the phone. , you can also shorten the time you spend with her and spend more time doing other things, such as making her suspect that you spend time with other women, causing her jealousy and sense of loss, and she will also spend more time with her. Spending time on you and wanting to contact you will easily spark the spark of love.
3. Increase freshness
You show something in front of her that you have never shown before On the one hand, for example, if you were polite in front of her before, you can now show your heroic side in front of her. You used to be a conservative and honest person, but now you can take her to a nightclub. You used to be playful and didn't like to study, but now you suddenly love to study. You used to dress very vulgar, but now you dress fashionably. You were not so positive before, but now you are full of enthusiasm every day, which makes her feel that she does not know you very well, so she has greater curiosity to observe you. At this time, you can seize the current opportunity and make good use of it. Be with her.
4. Use more body movements
Sometimes some body movements can make girls feel our hearts, such as holding her hand when crossing the road, or at a friend’s party. Sitting next to her, choosing food for her at dinner, etc. I believe it is the little details that will remain fresh in her memory.
5. Don’t be too deliberate
Being a friend is very good for you. You can use your friend’s status to get close to her. Don’t chase her like a reckless boy. Forgot the identity of the friend. From a friend's perspective, give her timely care. Never learn plot points from idol dramas to add drama to yourself. Not only will they not bring you closer together, they will also make the girl embarrassed and want to ignore you.
6. Don’t be afraid of losing face
Some boys want to ask a girl out. If the girl refuses, it’s okay once or twice, but she will be rejected the third time. , he is not willing. Let a girl wait and give her an adaptive psychological process. The second reason may be that the girl refuses because she is not ready yet. You persist, let her see your sincerity, and you will succeed one time, so don't be afraid to keep her on the date and never give up.
7. Compliment her
<. p> When the other person has no feelings for you, you need to better hide your love for her and let her recognize it through your praise. For example, if the other person is a football fan, you can say to her: The man who plays football is so handsome. If the other person is a workaholic, you can say to her: I love people who love to work. Don’t say you like the other person directly, but always like the person you talk to and like the other person. This will help you think about the other person and him too. You won’t like me.