I believe everyone knows the characteristics of Aries boys. In simple terms, they look like children (which is indeed the same), but the specific behavior varies from person to person, and the difference is affected by multiple factors. , it may be the environment in which he grew up, which may be school, life, or family. Many people say that Aries men cannot find girlfriends. Simply put, it may be due to the following reasons:
1. Aries men have high requirements for choosing a mate
Aries men always Want to pursue better and get better. Who doesn’t want to meet someone who is like-minded and has good overall conditions? This is not a problem of Aries, it is natural selection and survival of the fittest, just like the trend of competition in today’s society that pursues higher, faster and stronger. What you see is that he is the same as everyone else. If I put it in other words, it would sound much better: I want to make myself better, and I also want to meet you who are equally good.
2. Aries men easily treat girls as buddies
Aries men have no shortage of confidants around them. There is no shortage of classmates and friends. He is such a nature, enthusiastic, active, lively and cheerful. To be honest, everyone likes this kind of character. Just like a child, he is not scheming, has simple ideas, has a sense of justice and is kind. If you add more knowledge, you will always have endless topics to chat with him, and you can talk about everything. Can you think about whether such an Aries man is not dazzling? But things have two sides. This will give people the illusion of being a philanderer. In addition, the Aries man has this kind of personality, and it is very likely that he regards girls as brothers. Girls probably no longer have nostalgia for such a piece of wood.
3. It is difficult for Aries men to start a relationship freely
Aries men are aggressive and uneasy with the status quo. When they meet a girl they like, they don’t want to leave their eyes for a moment (emotional), but there are A sense of responsibility, a sense of mission, and a sense of inferiority rises when he thinks that there is still a long way to go in the future. He doesn’t want to see you sad and doesn’t want you to suffer with him. You are a beautiful work of art in his eyes. I know I can't get you in a short time, so I won't hurt you. This may be the reason why Aries boys find it difficult to start a relationship in a free and easy way (this paragraph is my own, atypical Aries personality...)
4. Aries men tend to be sad in times of adversity
Aries men are dazzling in good times, but tend to be sad in times of adversity. . The pursuit of excellence must go through ups and downs. Aries in good times are like people in dreams, too beautiful. In adversity, it is easy to fall into memories, and they are restless and not practical enough. Therefore, such Aries are daunting, at least for me now. I am very sad at this stage. Let alone finding a girlfriend, blaming myself will make me sad.
5. Aries men are too arrogant
Aries men are arrogant and sometimes prone to arrogance. It is not so much that they have high demands on others as they have high demands on themselves.. I always feel that it is too extravagant and irresponsible for a boy to fall in love when I have nothing. This feeling is probably the reason why I have missed or am missing excellent girls.
Generally speaking, Aries men have obvious advantages and outstanding shortcomings. They can also be attractive, but their temperaments are unpredictable, like a mystery, so it is difficult to find a girlfriend. Because many girls leave him during the contact stage.
