Possessiveness is a psychological phenomenon, which may not be a bad thing, but it is not necessarily a good thing, especially in relationships. A possessive woman may scare away many men. What does a possessive woman look like?
1. Performance of a possessive woman
1. Forced to ask for help
Such possessive women often have many behavioral requirements for you, such as saying hello before going to bed and getting up early, surprises and gifts during holidays, etc. May everything you do be seen before her eyes and told to her personally.
2. Help you make decisions
Possessive women will help you decide everything on their own, but in fact, their decisions do not take you into consideration. This was originally a small thing, but it became very complicated in their handling. If you have different views or objections to her, then she will think that you have left her control, that you do not love her, or that you have changed your mind. .
2. How to chase a possessive woman
1. Have a tacit understanding with her
Boys who want to chase a possessive woman must understand Although this kind of woman looks strong on the outside, she is fragile on the inside.
Therefore, boys should show themselves to be soft on the outside and strong on the inside, and form a tacit understanding with girls in appearance. When a girl is weak, she can help her get through difficulties. When a girl can't hold on, she can be comforted. When a girl is no longer strong, she can be given support. See through the weakness in a girl's heart and let her slowly rely on you.
2. Rely on her when she is weak
No matter how strong the possessive girls are on the outside, there is always a little girl living inside, and the reason why they are strong , it is not caused by being forced by life, it may be due to the factors of the original family, or it may be caused by the later work. If there is a strong support, who is willing to make oneself invincible? Behind the strength is full of blood and tears.
Therefore, if you want to chase such a woman, a man must give her a solid shoulder to lean on. When she is tired, confused, or crying, she will have a haven to take shelter from the wind. There is also a heart-warming saying, "Don't be afraid, I'm here for everything."
3. Help her share the burden
Possessive women tend to control others in life. It may be due to excessive stress, and this kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder caused by long-term excessive stress.
Therefore, boys should be more considerate of her, help her share the pressure, and inject some gentle strength into her. Girls who live in a warm environment will definitely become softer and their mood will become more and more cheerful.
3. How to change a possessive woman
1. Follow the instructions firstShe's coming
People who are possessive are often strong and very stubborn at heart. If you go against her, she will be stronger and try her best to possess you. Therefore, at this time, there should be no blunt confrontation. You can follow her wishes first and let her satisfy herself for a while. Don't rush to go against her and let her think that her possessive desire has been satisfied. In this way, she can soften.
Of course, some of her behaviors driven by possessiveness are acceptable to us, and some are instinctively acceptable to us. For those who accept it, there is no problem, we just satisfy her. For unacceptable behavior, we will proceed to the second step.
2. Communicate well
It is very important to communicate with people who are very possessive. Without communication, you can only be influenced by her. Only through communication can it be possible to change and influence her possessiveness. The way of communication is very important, and it cannot be said with accusations and dissatisfaction. You can praise her first, and in the process of making her feel good, suddenly express your different opinions and talk about the problems she may have. This makes it easier for her to accept. Then, tell her that if she does this, it will be better, if she does that, it will be perfect, and so on. In this way, she will know how to communicate with you.
3. Encourage her
Although possessive girls may find it difficult to communicate, they still long for recognition and like to be praised. When you praise her, she will often feel proud. Once you are proud, it will treat you better. In this way, her desire to control and possessiveness will gradually become good for you instead of good for herself. Love is mutual. If it's good for her, it's good for you too.
