As a social software, WeChat can not only be used to keep in touch with friends, but also to maintain relationships between friends. It can also be used to tease girls.
However, many boys don’t know how to chat with a strange girl when they first add her on WeChat. They often bombard the girl by checking her household registration. In the end, the girl is disgusted and even pulls her out directly. Black treatment.
So how do you chat with a girl on WeChat to make her feel good?
1. Don’t be impatient , take your time
Most boys will be very impatient after they first add a girl on WeChat. As long as the other party sends a message, they will reply to it for several days. When the girl does not reply within a few minutes, If you reply to a message, you will continue to send her messages, or even send her voice messages to start a video. This will not only fail to gain the girl's favor, but will also annoy her. So:
1. Don’t send messages to girls frequently
When a girl doesn’t reply to your messages, then don’t keep sending messages to girls. If a girl ignores you, she might be busy or doesn't want to talk to you. Don't ask for trouble at this time. The best way is to ignore her and find something to do.
2. Control the frequency of chatting with girls
When many boys chat with girls, they greet girls every day and rush to establish a relationship with girls. This approach will make girls feel pressured. She won't like you, so you have to control the frequency of chatting with girls. For example, be warm to her these days, and then be cold to her after two days to gradually build up a sense of familiarity.
2. Chat with discretion
After just adding girls to WeChat, some boys are eager to get The girl liked him, so he kept chatting with the girl. In the end, he ran out of topics and didn’t know what to talk about. In fact, this kind of unmeasured chat method showed himself to the girl too early, and lost the sense of mystery and mystery in front of the girl. Novelty, if girls are no longer curious about you, they will lose their attraction. So:
1. Cut off the chat in time
When chatting with a girl becomes more and more exciting, don’t continue chatting with her at this time, because if you continue to chat, it is very likely that you will not You must choose to get out of the topic when the girl is immersed in the chat. For example, tell the girl, "I have some things to do, so we will talk later." "I feel like it's getting late. I have to get up early tomorrow. How about we talk tomorrow?" End the topic with a reasonable reason without disturbing the girl's interest. Girls will never forget this chat with you, and the same goes for you.
2. Change the topic in time
When chatting with girls on WeChat, if you want to attract girls to the greatest extent, switch the topic in time when chatting with girls and the conversation is very exciting. We won’t talk about a topic to the point where we have nothing to say.Changing the topic can arouse more emotions in a girl. For example, by suppressing it, you can unintentionally show that you have no ambition for the girl, making her feel disappointed and want to attract your attention.
3. Be different when chatting with girls
Generally speaking, a girl will chat with more than just you. A boy, so when chatting with a girl, you should make the girl think that you treat her as unique, and she is unique in your eyes. That is to say, when chatting with a girl, you should be different to create a common topic that belongs to you and build a relationship between you. Only by connecting between them can we get closer to each other. Specifically:
1. Exchange inner secrets
Tell a girl a little secret you don’t know, and tell her you don’t want anyone to know. This secret can be from when you were a child. An unforgettable thing that happened to you or an embarrassing thing when you were growing up. The secret must be story-telling and unusual to arouse the interest of girls. When you are connected through this secret, you will have a common topic and build attraction.
2. Let her know you better
For girls, the girl added on WeChat You are still unreal, and you need to let her know that you are a real person. You can chat with girls about common topics, and you can tell them your experiences and stories, then girls will be more interested in listening to you. At the same time, guide the girl to tell her story and experience, deepen mutual understanding and resonate with each other, so as to quickly develop a good impression of you.
