When you love someone, even if it is a bitter love, you still want to show your heart to the other person. However, sometimes the person you love so much suddenly realizes that you don’t love him anymore one day. What is the reason?<br/ >
1. Can’t see the future
In fact, many couples have encountered this kind of breakup situation. Guo: We have been together with this person for two or three years. Logically speaking, it is time to talk about marriage, but the two of us still have no plans.
When talking about the future, they feel that the house is too expensive and the cost of living is too high. The two of them are not ready to get married and have children... When they think of the future, the two of them are full of fear. .
But time waits for no one. At the beginning, I thought, “We’ve only been together for half a year, why are we so anxious?” After a while, I thought, “I won’t see anything in a year, so just wait.” After a while, I felt that "even though it has been two years, we are still not ready"... accidentally, I will be in my twenties.
Keep going, the other person seems to never have a plan or preparation, and I can’t afford to wait. What if the other person dumps me again after being together for so long, and I still have something left. What?
So I still like it, but any relationship that lasts for a long time will make people want a result. When the result is not given for a long time, it will make people lose hope for the future of the two people. Confidence, thinking about getting out quickly.
2. Can’t stand you anymore
I have talked about this problem before: sometimes, the other person Not being with you doesn't necessarily mean that the other person doesn't like you at all, but that the other person can no longer stand living with you at this time.
I have met such a couple when I was consulting before: the two people have very different personalities. At first, they were attracted to each other by chance, and they quickly entered a relationship without much preparation, and It quickly developed to the stage of living together.
At the beginning, everyone had a good idea. After all, they thought that seeing each other every day, living together, and hugging each other out of bed was a happy thing. However, after living together, the two people no longer quarreled. It ended: I had a fight today because I forgot to cook, I had a fight tomorrow because this person stayed up late and affected my rest, and the day after tomorrow I had a fight because the other person kept quarreling with me...
It’s not like these two people don’t like each other anymore. After every quarrel, the relationship between the two people can be restored to its original state and they can still be together well. However, after waiting for too long, there will definitely be new problems. Put the two people in an atmosphere of tension again.
So in the end, the two people had to separate: because everyone hadI am tired and can no longer continue to live a normal life. At this time, I can only choose to separate. After all, no one can stand a person who is incompatible with him and has to quarrel with him every day to mess up his mentality.
Therefore, what can really bring about results between two people is "tolerable", not necessarily "like" - this person The thought of living with you gives me a headache. Even if you still have feelings for each other, so what?
So, actually giving up on someone you like is much simpler than we think:
It’s nothing more than that you like this person very much, but you find that the other person doesn’t care about your existence. It’s useless even if you like this person again;
It’s nothing more than that you like this person very much, but you are with the other person. Your relationship has no result, and you can't see the future at all;
It's just that although you like this person very much, you are not suitable to live together at all, and neither of you can stand the other.
