There are many boys who are always criticized by their girlfriends for being childish when they get along with their girlfriends. However, these boys still don’t know where they are childish until they break up. Today, the editor will analyze for you what it means when girls say boys are naive, and how boys can make changes.
1. What does it mean when girls say boys are naive?
1. Low emotional intelligence will not Chat
When chatting, I often find faults. I have a somewhat unreasonable and unforgiving attitude. I like to correct girls’ mistakes. I also always have a self-righteous attitude and love to preach.
Please, if a girl wants to hear the truth, do you still need you to explain it to her?
If you are eager to show your personal advantages, you will be too showy to hide the truth.
I thought I was very smart by insinuating between the lines and pretending to be invisible, but I didn’t know that those little thoughts had been clearly seen by the other party. The other party just nodded in agreement, seemingly agreeing, but in fact it was against their childish mentality. See through, don’t tell.
2. Always like to say "my mother said that"
Boys' naivety is most vividly reflected in the four words "my mother said that".
If you don’t believe me, you can search the Internet and you will know how much girls today hate “mama’s boys”.
In the eyes of girls, "independence" is an important sign of a mature man!
A boy who wants his mother to make the decision in everything will feel to girls like a child who has not been weaned. .
Very insecure, and then slowly became indifferent to them.
This is why many girls stop chatting with each other, but boys think they are playing hard to get?
3. Like to be Neptune
Some boys will prove their popularity by constantly having affairs with girls.
However, when their girlfriends or the girls they like get a little closer to other boys, they will become jealous.
From harsh words to harsh words to punches and kicks at worst, double standards are also a manifestation of childishness.
4. Solid thinking
For example, thinking that your life is like this.
When a girl talks to him about their bright future, he is always the one who throws cold water on her.
“We are just ordinary people, how can we afford such a life?”
“Some people just have a high starting point, and no matter how hard we work, we can’t compare with them.”
"That person is so nice, why don't you go fall in love with her?"
These words often leave girls speechless.
Look, giving enough excuses for not being motivated, and not allowing girls to have any ambiguity, otherwise they will be "materialistic and snobbish".
Being criticized for being childish is not unfair at all.
When a man is immature, it is difficult for him to understand the importance of empathy. If he acts willfully, no girl will like him.
In the hearts of girls, mature men are the most attractive and charming.
But maturity is definitely not due to the vicissitudes of life on the face. Real maturity is the maturity of the mind, which is reflected in every move.
2. How to change if a girl calls you childish
1. Know how to give in
In the TV series "Little Joy", Fangyuan is a man with a good temper. He is especially good at making his wife Tong Wenjie happy. Even if she is in a bad mood and has a bad attitude towards him, he is never angry.
In fact, in the process of getting along with girls, appropriate compromises and concessions will make girls have a better impression of you, because being with such a boy is definitely the most comfortable. He has always been There won’t be so much negative energy.
He can always turn big things into trivial matters in life, and turn small things into small things.
Such a boy is the most attractive in the hearts of girls. Although he may not be handsome enough, he can please women.
Boys should remember that if you want girls to be fascinated by you, then change your temper and don’t always worry about it. Your good attitude will definitely be appreciated by girls!
2. It can give girls a sense of security
Girls long for a sense of security in their bones. For example, someone can talk to them about their worries, and hold her hand tightly when crossing the road and let her walk on the inside of the road.
They hope that their boyfriends or boys can protect them more.
Especially when she is not going well at work, has been criticized, has quarreled with her best friend, is still on her menstrual period, or has a cold or fever, she needs the comfort of a boy even more psychologically. At this time, she only needs a cup of brown sugar water. Then add a few words, you are not allowed to eat cold food, you can buy whatever you want to eat.
Tell her that you will always be with her and take care of her, and everything will be OK.
Don’t say it in a straight-male way, drink hot water and get more rest.
Even if the girl doesn’t say anything, she is absolutely MMP in her heart. She feels that this man is so unreliable and childish that he wants to replace you in a minute.
What girls need is support, not just what anyone can say, drink hot water and rest more.
3. Responsible and responsible
Girls prefer boys who are responsible and never shy away from things. Also not afraid to take responsibility, especiallyWhen girls need help, boys will not hide away, but rush forward.
Many times, girls are timid and need to be protected by boys. If you are the boy who can protect her, she will definitely fall in love with you.
If you don’t believe it, in TV dramas, every time the heroine is in trouble or encounters danger, the male lead must be by her side.
A responsible boy has a very tall image in a girl’s heart. She will always think of you and care about you.
So, boys, don’t hide away when something happens. If you like her, then when she is in trouble, you must do your best to help her. The next couple of CPs will be you!
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