Quarrels are an inevitable problem that couples will encounter. When we have a dispute with our girlfriend, how can we use WeChat to resolve the conflict and rebuild the relationship? Below I will share with you some methods and techniques.
1. Calm down
After an argument, both parties need to calm down. Don't rush to send an apology or explain your point of view via WeChat, because your emotions may not have completely calmed down at this time, which may lead to inappropriate words. Give each other some time and space to think calmly.
2. In-depth reflection
During the calm period, you can conduct in-depth reflection on your behavior. Recall the reasons for the quarrel, whether your attitude and words were excessive, etc. Doing so helps us better understand the other person's position and identify where we are wrong.
3. Sincere apology
When you realize your mistake, you should apologize to your girlfriend in time . Express your apology through WeChat and sincerely admit your fault. At the same time, you must also express your determination to correct mistakes and improve yourself.
4. Listen to the other party
After apologizing, listen to your girlfriend’s thoughts and feelings. Ask her for her opinion via WeChat and listen carefully. Don't interrupt her and give her enough space to express her emotions and opinions.
5. Express understanding and concern
While listening to the other person, you should also express your understanding and concern for her. Tell her through WeChat that you understand her position and will pay more attention to her feelings. This builds intimacy and trust between each other.
6. Seek consensus
Quarrels are often caused by the two parties having different views or needs, so after calming down, you can try to find consensus. Communicate through WeChat to find a solution acceptable to both parties to achieve a win-win situation.
7. Rebuilding trust
Arguments may destroy trust between each other, so after resolving the conflict, efforts need to be made to rebuild trust. Express your trust to your girlfriend through WeChat and show your actions to prove your sincerity.
8. Learn to communicate
Quarrels are caused by poor communication, so when sending WeChat messages with your girlfriend, you must learn to communicate better. Try to express your opinions in concise and clear language and avoid using conflicting words. At the same time, you must also be good at listening to each other and respond positively.
9. Maintain relationships
After a quarrel, maintain the relationship through WeChat. You can send some warm words, pictures or music to express your thoughts and care for her. This can increase the intimacy between each other and make the relationship stronger.
After having a dispute with our girlfriend, resolving the conflict through WeChat requires us to think calmly.Exam, apologize sincerely, listen to the other party, seek consensus, etc. Only through good communication and understanding can we rebuild our feelings and make each other stronger together.
